The Social Skills Doctor Podcast
Podcast by the unconventional social skills doctor known for his social skills training & shyness deactivation with a stunning twist that unleashes your mind and unlocks your conversations.
The Conversation Starter Cards That Can Replace Every Social Skills Book Ever Written
January 22, 2024 • 14 MIN
In this episode we go to the holy grail every shy or socially challenged person has been looking for since the dawn of the human race – the bestowment of a near instant 500% increase in social intelligence and skills through the medium of some very unique conversation cards.
The Three Golden Elements of a Boss Conversationalist - Anyone Can Learn
January 15, 2024 • 16 MIN
Imagine, with just three shifts to your conversation game and you could increase your presence and conversation mastery by 90%. That’s not fantasy, empty air, or a promise only for those that can already talk – In fact, if you consider yourself a good talker, then you probably need to hear this episode the most…
Develop Your Social Skills With Conversation Super Strategies
January 1, 2024 • 20 MIN
A quiet revolution is taking place in the world of developing yout social skills. In this episode we will investigate the legacy of childhood on your adult world, and how to break free of your childcuffs with a new generation of high impact conversation strategies.
The Social Skills Doctors Answer and Solution to: Why Does My Mind Go Blank
December 21, 2023 • 17 MIN
Discover why your mind goes blank and unlock the secrets to overcoming mental blocks. Find out how to improve focus, boost creativity, and unleash your full potential in social settings.
The Social Skills Doctors Definitive Guide to Improving Your Comm Skills
December 18, 2023 • 21 MIN
Improve your communication skills and enhance your professional success. In this episode we cover the importance of communication skills in a personal and professional setting, address the key barriers that may be holding you back, before covering effective techniques to communicate confidently and connect with others.
The Social Skills Doctors: How to avoid shyness in public speaking
December 11, 2023 • 14 MIN
Discover the secrets to overcoming shyness in public speaking. In this episode we take a look at the common reasons our mind will self-sabatage, and why it's not nessesary to cure shyness when you use the social skills doctors techniques for mind and body management instead.
Small Talk Hacks Straight From Mazlows Hierarchy Of Needs
December 4, 2023 • 18 MIN
It could be said the very thing powering the engine room of all human relations, and all that motivates us to success in life - is small talk. What better way to prove or disprove it than with Mazlows hierarchy of needs...
Eliminate These Five Social Blind Spots to Improve Your Conversation Game
November 27, 2023 • 21 MIN
Communication skills are not just a nice-to-have, they are a game-changer that can propel you towards success in every aspect of your life. But sometimes it isn't just about learning new skills and practicing, it's about identifying and working out your bad habits and conversational blind spots too. In this article we will cover five of the biggest.
Finding Forging And Maintaining Friendships In Adulthood - A Ten-Stage Guide
November 20, 2023 • 16 MIN
In this episode we will cover the three ingredients of friendship and the ten stages of finding, forming, and maintaining friendships in adulthood, from uncovering opportunities and venues, making contact and the importance of using small talk to effectively build rapport in a first conversation before easing into the later stages of strengthening and future-proofing a friendship through adulthood.
Develop Your Social Skills - The Essential Guide
November 13, 2023 • 19 MIN
There are only a handful of truly important things you need to be able to do to survive in this world, such as feeding yourself, putting a roof over your head, and avoiding hungry tigers. This essential survival guide will give you everything you need to survive and thrive with humans...
Can An Introverted Person Become Extroverted
November 6, 2023 • 18 MIN
Take a walk into the engine room of introversion and discover not whether its possible to become extroverted but by how much, using five levers and one secret key to unlock a world of extrovert benefits today!
What Builds Self Confidence - The Jigsaw Method
October 30, 2023 • 19 MIN
In this season opening episode we're going to discuss confidence and whether getting rid of that one big confidence killer thing you've been carrying around for years, really can make you more confident and outgoing in all other areas of your life. The conclusions of this episode will be based on two case studies. This is a must listen
The Seven Conversation Levelers
May 10, 2022 • 24 MIN
Ever felt like you were on the low ground in conversations? Feeling out of your depth with imposter syndrome... In todays Livestream we cover seven ways to level the conversational playing field.
The Three Levels Of Power House Compliment-Giving
May 3, 2022 • 28 MIN
Ever given somebody a compliment only for it to be swatted away. Sadly, compliments make many people embarrassed, disbelieving, or suspicious for the motives of the compliment-giver. Yet compliments can have incredibly powerful positive effects when delivered by skillful hands. This episode will turn you into a skillful practitioner of the compliment.
The Four Barriers to Connecting and Making Friends
April 25, 2022 • 28 MIN
Have you ever looked at outgoing people and wondered just what invisible quality they have which enables them to make friends with seemingly little effort? Then you look at your own friend network and see your cat looking back? This episode will raise four shocking realisations from your subconscious, and once you see them held up to the light, you can make instant changes that will remove barriers to future friendships
Increase Your Likability With The Question Pushes Statement Conversation Strategy
April 19, 2022 • 25 MIN
The path to being a better conversationalist takes a leap of faith and a measure of trust in yourself. It requires that you leap off a cliff and build your wings on the way down, It’s counter-intuitive to what you’ve probably been doing for most of your life… But it’s also a very simple and liberating transition that will increase your personal stock of likability if you’re ready for it…
The Power Of Questions You Must Know About
April 11, 2022 • 13 MIN
Questions are what can fuel the fire of a conversation, but they may have much wider implications than you imagined. Tune in to this episode to discover the three question types and how developing a questioning mindset could transform a lot more than just your social interactions...
20 four strategies for developing eye-contact
April 4, 2022 • 18 MIN
Ever feel like it would be easier to pick up a mountain than it would your eye level? As a rule of thumb, your gaze rests at the same level as your self-belief, self-esteem, self-worth etc You know you are radiating low self-confidence, and It just sucks not to be able to hold eye-contact for more than a few second before dropping it in supposed deference to the other person. It needs to stop and you need to claim your place as an equal in any conversation so lets look at four strategies for developing healthy eye-contact
The Four Levels Of Conversation
March 28, 2022 • 22 MIN
You may have heard it said when two people meet and just click straight away - 'It feels like i've known you my whole life... Well the opposite can be true too. Ever been the quiet one in conversations? or the over-sharer? ever just not been able to click with someone? This episode about the four levels of conversation may just offer an explanation for all of it...
How To End A Conversation
March 21, 2022 • 18 MIN
Ever found yourself in a conversation you would like to end, but you're to polite to come right out and say so? In today's episode we discuss five ways exit strategies...
Five Ways To Lead In A Conversation
March 7, 2022 • 16 MIN
Being the quiet one in social settings means you will almost always be the follower in conversations. Being the follower means you often get led into topics unfamiliar to you. This results in you having little to contribute. In this episode we will cover five different ways you can lead in a conversation, from the very gentle to the dominant. Great conversations are balanced conversations, so lets get into it... To listen to previous livestreams go here: www.lifeconfident.com/livestream
The Three Stage PPF Shyness & Social Anxiety Formula
March 3, 2022 • 23 MIN
Have you reached a point where you can't see any future where shyness or social anxiety has visited first and ruined it for you? You see so many books, programs, and courses announcing how to overcome shyness and blah blah? Tune in to this livestream if you want to know the three step roadmap that will show you the way to actual progress - but only if you do all three steps and in the right order... To connect with this social skills series, get bonuses and notifications for future streams, go to: www.lifeconfident.com/livestream
The Five Social Skills Enablers
February 28, 2022 • 24 MIN
Have you tried to develop better social skills, you've read the books, armed yourself with some strategies, put yourself out there, but somehow you're not making progress, just like you're on a slide with too much friction. Chances are one or more things are holding you back. Tune in to the podcast to discover five ways of removing the friction. To connect with this social skills series, get bonuses and notifications for future casts, go to: www.lifeconfident.com/livestream
Three Step Social Confidence
February 23, 2022 • 26 MIN
Three factors contribute to you being quiet in conversations, in this episode we cover what they are and one methodology to overcoming them for a more dynamic role in social situations. To connect with this social skills series, get bonuses and notifications for future streams, go to: www.lifeconfident.com/livestream
The Four Social Inhibitors
February 21, 2022 • 13 MIN
Sometimes in life when you want to develop your social skills, first you have to remove some mental barriers. In this episode we cover the four social inhibitors and their characteristics, and how to begin moving beyond them.
Four Styles of Non-Verbal Rapport Building
February 18, 2022 • 23 MIN
Fancy doing some covert rapport building techniques for when you are meeting new people in a business or social context? These techniques can help the other person reach that feeling you are a familiar (and therefore trustworthy person) sooner than would normally be the case... To connect with this social skills series, get bonuses and notifications for future streams, go to: www.lifeconfident.com/livestream
The F.O.R.D Conversation Strategy
February 16, 2022 • 22 MIN
The F.O.R.D Conversation Strategy is an acronym based approach that helps you remember key topics to introduce into small talk and casual conversations. Good for those that tend to get a blank mind in social situations. To connect with this social skills series, get bonuses and notifications for future streams, go to: www.lifeconfident.com/livestream
Five Ways To Get More Interesting
February 14, 2022 • 17 MIN
We would all like a bigger sprinkling of interesting dust, or at least, not to feel like we are a boring person, because that leads to feelings of inferiority. In this episode we explore five different ways to become a person of interest :) To connect with this social skills series go to:: www.lifeconfident.com/livestream
The Magic Word For Connecting With New People
February 11, 2022 • 20 MIN
Small talk is nice to pass time with your neighbour, but on a date, you want to get to the next level. Today we explore one very effective approach for fast tracking forming connections with new people. For bonuses of this podcast go here: www.lifeconfident.com/livestream
The Four Magic Questions
February 9, 2022 • 12 MIN
The four cute and fluffy little questions that pack a punch of hilarity in any 'getting to know you' conversation. These four questions are designed to reveal something about the other person - but ensure to advise them up front :)
5 Social Skills Critical Use Cases
February 4, 2022 • 26 MIN
In todays episode we examine five areas where social skills are vital for progression in life, love, and business. To view previous livestreams, download PDF's. and get an exclusive discount code to all Lifeconfident super strategy workshops, please go here: https://lifeconfident.com/livestream
Dealing with awkward silences
February 2, 2022 • 16 MIN
If awkward silences are something you loathe and despise happening in conversations, this episode focuses on three ways ways we can deal with them like a champion to ensure the continued flow of wine and chatter :) Click here to get notifications of upcoming livestreams, access to previous livestreams & PDF's and an exclusive workshop conversation suer strategy discount code.
The A.R.E Conversation Strategy Method
January 31, 2022 • 13 MIN
Welcome to the world series for small talk and conversation strategies. Todays topic is the A.R.E conversation method. A simple and clean approach for transitioning from first contact into the flow of good small talk and more. To get the PDF template for the ARE method, view previous livestreams, and get an exclusive discount code to all Lifeconfident super strategy workshops, please go here: https://lifeconfident.com/livestream
The Four Sides Model
January 28, 2022 • 29 MIN
How many times have others misunderstood what you said? Or how often have you misunderstood or misinterpreted what somebody said to you? The Four Sides conversation model provides a structured approach to ending miscommunications, or at the least - raising our awareness of the ambiguities and assumptions in what we say...
Conversation Models Strategies & Ice-breakers Series Intro
January 27, 2022 • 12 MIN
If you're looking to improve your social skills, learn conversation strategies (especially if your mind betrays you and goes blank in conversation) but, out of the many thousands of books available on the subject, you don't know where to start, or you don't have the time for reading - this livestream is an introduction into a new series from Lifeconfident.com. Tune in as the founder ' Richard Gray' introduces himself and this new series.
How To Overcome a Blank Mind And Become a Conversational Genius With Quotesnapping
May 24, 2021 • 11 MIN
Having a blank mind in conversations can be unimaginably frustrating and embarrassing. Especially when everyone else is chatting away, but you are rigid and self-conscious, your mind blank, hoping attention doesn't shift to you for a contribution - quotesnap forces the door back open...
Eight Activating Actions For Becoming More Confident on Stage and in Life
May 17, 2021 • 12 MIN
When you think about it, stage fright is the most irrational fear in the world, after all, what is public speaking other than one human being talking to another human being... or many? This episode relays a true story and offers real solutions
The Only Three Steps Your Will Ever Need To Know For Building Self-Confidence
May 10, 2021 • 15 MIN
Confidence breeds successful people, it creates an umbrella of security in knowing that whatever challenges you face in life, you have the drive and the confidence to overcome it. Once you have it, others will be attracted to you, and to shelter under your umbrella.
The Four Magic Conversation Starter Questions (Guaranteed To Spice Up Any Date)
May 3, 2021 • 14 MIN
You can go on the internet and, with a simple search, bring up hundreds of conversation starter questions, but many will stall a conversation rather than fire it up. The four-question sequence I will reveal in this episode, packs more fire power than all others put together...
Can You Overcome Shyness? (The Five Biggest Shyness Questions Answered)
April 26, 2021 • 16 MIN
If you're young you may be wondering if girls like shy guys, or even if and how you can overcome being shy. As you grow a little older you begin wondering if shyness will ever go away with age. This episode will give you the unvarnished truth to these questions and more...
The Five Blind Spots Of A Bad Conversationalist
April 19, 2021 • 14 MIN
When every conversation feels like a car crash, sometimes the only way to move forward is to go back and learn your blind spots...
The Five Levels Of Eye Contact (And How To Hold Your Own In Conversation)
April 12, 2021 • 17 MIN
If you are struggling with eye contact, chances are you are struggling in many other areas of social life too. So, if the eyes really are the windows of the soul, in this article we will pull back the curtains to examine the five levels of eye contact, and reveal the one to aspire to...
The Three Stages to Overcoming Shyness & Social Anxiety - and why exposure therapy has no place in them
April 5, 2021 • 12 MIN
If life was made of broken glass, shyness and social anxiety would be the equivalent of trying to walk your path barefoot. We can't get rid of the glass, but we can learn to fly in three stages - Hint! this is not your average hints and tips episode...
The Five Levels of Assertiveness (And The One That Will Gain You Respect)
March 29, 2021 • 12 MIN
Either you are an assertive person who can speak up for yourself and stand your ground, or you are passive and letting others wipe their feet on your self-esteem. In this article we look at the five different levels of assertiveness, and how to move to the right level - hint! it's not level five
Six Body Language Betrayals that transfer the balance of power to you at parties
March 22, 2021 • 16 MIN
As a person with shyness or social anxiety, going to parties, clubs, networking events, the office party, or any kind of social gathering can be your worst nightmare. That is until you learn how to read the room and discover - not everything is as it appears.
Seven Types of Intelligence (And The One That Can Help You Be Popular)
March 15, 2021 • 12 MIN
Traditional education has given us a lot, but unfortunately it is one of those great institutions of life that has failed to mature alongside the pupils whom have passed through it, and equip them with the most important intelligence of all...
Ten Self-Confidence Skills to Make Your Personality Go Viral
March 1, 2021 • 13 MIN
You look at self-confident people, then you look at yourself and ask: 'Is self-confidence a skill I can develop, or is it a personality trait you just had to be born with'? In this episode you will discover that self-confidence is NOT a birthright reserved for some and not others.