3 Reasons Men Must Start Choosing

December 15, 2021 • 23 MIN

Choosing builds us up as men. The power of a man's choice is part of being a true man. However, too many men are avoiding choices today. Let's find out why choosing is so important to us as men.

Where are You Driving as a Man?

December 8, 2021 • 23 MIN

We are using the analogy of driving a car to look at how we as men should drive our life. No one can drive your life for you. As men, there are some key things we have to do to drive our own life and not sit back and do nothing.

3 Reasons Men Should Not Go With the Flow

December 1, 2021 • 22 MIN

If you go with the flow, is that a good thing or not? Actually, it depends on if it is just a personality trait or a lifestyle. Men weren't designed to go with the flow because it hurts them as men. On today's show, we look at 3 reasons why you shouldn't just go with the flow all the time as a man.

Why Men Need Thankfulness

November 24, 2021 • 25 MIN

As men, it is really easy for us to keep our heads down and grind out every day of our lives. We have the stuff to do and all the stuff is important. However, if we don't take time to be thankful, it will hurt us in the long run.

Playing the Victim as a Man

November 17, 2021 • 25 MIN

Many men play the victim in their life and they don't even realize it! They don't sit around and whine (well, almost all of them don't....) but they are playing the victim in different ways in their life. Let's look at the 3 reasons that men play the victim and how they do it.

Why She Doesn't Get You

November 10, 2021 • 25 MIN

Men are not the simple creatures portrayed in movies and tv shows. Men are complex and have different emotions, strengths, and weaknesses that they are all working with. Many times women say they don't understand us. What can we do about that? There are actually some simple things we can do to help women understand us, and it starts with us.

Every Man's Worst Enemy

November 3, 2021 • 25 MIN

Every man has an enemy. It isn't some secret ninja chasing him around! It is an enemy inside our own mind. Our thoughts can be our biggest enemies. Too often we lose the battle in our mind before we even compete in life. Let's learn about the biggest enemies of thinking for men.

The Variety of Routine

October 27, 2021 • 24 MIN

Men need routine, however, those routines can easily turn into RUTS! We need routines but we also need to change them up. We need variety as men cause it pushes us to grow and develop as men.

A Man's Source of Discouragement

October 20, 2021 • 28 MIN

Our discouragement is often set up by our unmet expectations. We have to make sure our expectations aren't hurting us by causing unneeded discouragement.

Men and Their Fitness Part 2 with Jared Jones

October 13, 2021 • 40 MIN

We continue our discussion with Jared Jones. He is the fitness manager at Movara Fitness Resort in Southern Utah. In this episode, he gives us his 3 key training principles and talks about the importance of nutrition.

Men and Their Fitness: Interview with Jared Jones

October 6, 2021 • 29 MIN

We talk to Jared Jones in this episode. He is the fitness manager at Movara Fitness Resort in Southern Utah. In this episode, he shares his story. He shares his journey through fitness and some of his philosophy of movement.

Perseverance: The Lost Strength of Men

September 29, 2021 • 22 MIN

Men should be the ones who persevere in life. However, too many men are losing the ability to persevere. Quitting has become an acceptable part of life for many men and our society is paying for it. We need men to understand the 3 realities of perseverance.

Every Man's Fantasy Island

September 22, 2021 • 24 MIN

Fantasy island isn't just a show, but it is how too many men live. They don't look at the reality of life, they live in their own fantasy of what life should be. This is dangerous for them and keeps them from being the men they were created to be.

Why Men Don't Change

September 15, 2021 • 24 MIN

Change is hard for us as men. We tend to only change when we "have" too. Why is that? Often times it has everything to do with our Mindset. When we change our mindset, we change our lives.

Taking Charge of Our Health as Men Part 2

September 8, 2021 • 30 MIN

We continue our discussion with Dr. Patel about some of the important aspects of our health as men in this episode.

Taking Charge of Our Health as Men with Dr. Bhavesh Patel

September 1, 2021 • 26 MIN

Our health as men is incredibly important. There is emotional health, mental health, spiritual health, and physical health. In this episode, we focus on physical health. We want to know what we should focus on as men and how to be proactive in all areas of our health. We do this with our special guest Dr. Bhavesh Patel

The Character Behind Action

August 25, 2021 • 25 MIN

The foundation of your actions as a man are your character. Who you are on the inside really does matter when it comes to your action. If you pretend or play a part, eventually it will come out and people will see the real you. As men, we need to learn how to work on our own character so our actions are true and consistent.

A Man's Need For Movement

August 18, 2021 • 25 MIN

Too many men are not taking action today. They are held back by some of their own messed-up thinking. We are going to look at why we need movement as men and how our thinking could be keeping us from that movement.

The Mental War

August 11, 2021 • 23 MIN

Action starts in our minds as men. We all have mental battles and we must learn how to win them. If we don't they will hurt us as men and those we are in a relationship with.

George Patton: Man of Action

August 4, 2021 • 25 MIN

We are called to be men of action, but that is difficult in today's society. There are incredible pressures for men to be passive. We are going to learn about how to be a man of action from a man of history: George Patton.

Own Your Calendar = Own Your Life

July 28, 2021 • 25 MIN

If you want to live on purpose and own your life, you must own you calendar. As men, we must take responsibility for our lives by doing the hard work of taking responsibility for our calendar.

The Power of No

July 21, 2021 • 23 MIN

When you set a purpose in your life and build your priorities you are focusing your yes. How you live those priorities out is based not on your yes, but on how you use the word NO.

No Purpose = No Direction

July 14, 2021 • 26 MIN

The key to managing our schedule and priorities comes from our purpose and not our willpower.  Men have always thrived throughout history when they had a clear purpose. Today we talk about how our purpose gives us the direction we need for our lives.

The Real Joe Lau Interview

July 7, 2021 • 29 MIN

We are interviewing self-made entrepreneur Joe Lau on the show today. Joe inspires and challenges people to connect with who they truly are so that they can have meaningful relationships and live a healthier and higher-quality lifestyle. He talks to men today about the journey he took as a dad and the things he does to prioritize his family.

Decluttering the Male Mind (Replay)

June 30, 2021 • 17 MIN

Here is one of our most downloaded episodes. It fits so well with our focus on a man's mind this month. What do we do with all the clutter in our brains as men? This episode we will talk about the concept of brain boxes and how they can help us declutter our mind. This will empower us to think and communicate more clearly.

The Mind Drug

June 23, 2021 • 24 MIN

Many men today are battling with an all-natural drug that is stealing their adventure as men. The drug is pleasure and we are going to learn how to control it and not let it control us

The Mind Map

June 16, 2021 • 26 MIN

Every man should have a mind map.  It is the thing that gives him direction and defines his actions.  When men don't have a mind map they are animalistic and selfish.  When men do have a mind map, they with purpose and change the world. 

The Mental Noise

June 9, 2021 • 23 MIN

What plays in your head? All men have something going on in their head and they need to learn to control it. If you don't control the Mental Noise in your head, it will control you. Time to step up and be the owner of what's in your mind.

The Abundant Mindset with Scott Ducker

June 2, 2021 • 35 MIN

We have a special interview with Scott Ducker. He and his wife Julie co-founded Live Simply Abundant where they mentor & equip leaders, entrepreneurs, and professionals to prosper doing what they love. Scott and I talk about how an abundant mindset can help men in their every day life.

Every Dad's Superpower

May 26, 2021 • 19 MIN

Every dad has a super power; however, many of them let it lie dormant.  If they learn how to cultivate and use this superpower, they would transform their relationship with their kids.  The super power is listening and many men could make it great with just 3 simple tips.

The Outward Dad

May 19, 2021 • 21 MIN

Men who want to be dads must push past the busyness of life and seek to prioritize their focus on their role as dads.  They have to live with purpose in their life and bring purpose to the family.  They must seek to serve their family first, but not lose their other responsibilities in the process.  They must also prioritize their relationships so they don't forget to invest their energy in the most important ones.  Being a dad is hard, but that is what we as men were designed to be. 

The Inward Dad

May 12, 2021 • 20 MIN

Any man can be a father, but not every father can be a dad.  Every man who wants to be a dad and not just a father, must start the process not on the outside but on the inside.  Every dad must go inward first to be the dad he was designed to be. 

Dad Tips: An Interview with Dr Cam

May 5, 2021 • 32 MIN

Today we are interviewing Dr. Cameron Caswell.  She is an Adolescent Psychologist and Family Coach who has worked with families for over 15 years.  She comes with lots of great tips to help you be a better dad!

Building a Band of Brothers Pt 2

April 28, 2021 • 22 MIN

Men need community and they need a band of brothers.  The 2 areas we talk about today are Finding Allies and Creating a Free Fire Zone.  We show the need for each one and give you tips on how to build them as you build your own band of brothers.

Building a Band of Brothers Pt 1

April 21, 2021 • 20 MIN

Every man needs a "Band of Brothers."  These are a group of men who do life together.  They are friends, but they also encourage and challenge each other.  Too many men today are so filled with busyness and overwhelm that they don't have a "Band of Brothers."  We are going to look at some practical ways they can build a band. 

Lonely Men are Dangerous Men: 3 Keys to Beat Loneliness

April 14, 2021 • 23 MIN

Many men are suffering from loneliness, but they are often so busy with life they don't notice.  However, it affects how they live and the many choices they make.  It can cause destruction in their life and in their relationships.  Men need a community of men in their life and should be intentional about making it happen.

Men On Fire: Interview with Stephen Mansfield

April 7, 2021 • 33 MIN

We are joined by New York Bestselling author Stephen Mansfield, author of Men on Fire. We discuss the state of men today, why men need a band of brothers and what that looks like. Plus we discuss the need of the next generation to be mentored.

How to be a Champion Man

March 31, 2021 • 21 MIN

Basketball is a team sport and shows us how it always takes a team to be a champion. Men want to be champions in their life but live in such a hectic overwhelm that they can hardly survive much less be a champion. However the key is not harder work, but smarter development. Men must develop a team mindset and get better at intimacy to be a true champion.

Getting in the Paint: 3 Keys to Strong Relationships

March 24, 2021 • 21 MIN

In basketball the area in front of the basket called the lane can be referred to as the paint.  This is where the game of basketball gets up close and personal.  As men, the real depth of our relationships comes when we are up close and personal.  Too many men live superficial lives and have superficial relationships.  On today's show we learn 3 keys for strong relationships by talking about the paint.

The Family Point Guard

March 17, 2021 • 23 MIN

A man's role in the family is to do more than just provide. He is called to do so much more and a great way to understand it is to understand the role of a point guard on a basketball team. Every man should be the point guard of his family.

Every Man an Obi-Wan

March 10, 2021 • 21 MIN

Just as Obi-Wan mentored and coached Luke Skywalker, every man should mentor and coach another man.  Men should coach other men, and if they don't it hurts the upcoming generations, plus it hurts them as men too.  Men miss out on many great things if they don't coach another man.

Every Man Needs A Coach

March 3, 2021 • 21 MIN

Your growth as a man is often on the other side of coaching.  When you seek out coaching it shows you have a desire to grow and develop yourself.  When you don't, you are communicating that you have settled and growth doesn't matter to you.  This keeps you from fully engaging your full potential.  You need coaching and your actions will show if you're ready for it.

Strong Men Serve Their Wives

February 24, 2021 • 19 MIN

Too often the image of a strong man is seen as someone who has people serve him.  However, the opposite is true.  Strong men are the men who are willing to serve and lift others up.  We use the example of a man serving his wife as an example of serving, but serving others is something that men can do in every walk of life.  Their strength is shown by their service of others. 

Building Your Emotional Biceps

February 17, 2021 • 22 MIN

Every man has very strong emotions.  They may not show it outwardly, but they feel very strongly.  Every man does.  Why should a man connect with his emotions?  If he doesn't, he risks missing out on stronger relationships and living fully in his purpose.

The Secrets to Understanding Women

February 10, 2021 • 21 MIN

Men have been trying to understand women for as long as men and women have been here.  The process is not easy but there can be understanding.  The key is for us as men to change our focus and see things from a different perspective.

Great Sex Secrets for Men

February 3, 2021 • 20 MIN

Everyone seems to offer the secret to great sex.  Most people focus on the physical aspect of sex, however the secret has very little to do with the physical and everything to do with the other aspects of life: the emotional, the mental, and the spiritual. So dive in and discover the great sex secrets for men

3 Keys to Attract Women

January 27, 2021 • 20 MIN

Every man wants to be attractive to women.  This fits both single men and married men.  Single men want women to find them attractive with the hopes of finding the right one.  Married men should also seek to have their wife find them attractive.  This is something that doesn't stop once you are married.  The keys have nothing to do with your abs or bank account, but everything to do with your mindset.

A Man & His Passions

January 20, 2021 • 20 MIN

Men often struggle with their passions.  They have society often trying to take away their passions and telling them to stop being so passionate.  However, men influence through their passions.  What they need to do is figure out how to discover their positive passions and direct them the right way. 

Every Man's Grind

January 13, 2021 • 20 MIN

Every man has to grind. Grinding is a part of our life as men. The problem is when we forget that and start comparing ourselves to other people's highlights, or we allow ourselves to over grind and hurt ourselves.

Choose Your Adventure

January 6, 2021 • 21 MIN

Every man has an adventure to live, but he has to make the choice to live it. Too many men are letting excuses keep them in a rut and it is affecting their whole lives. Living an adventure takes courage, but brings the variety & challenge so many men crave. Are you ready to Choose Your  Adventure?

A Man's 3 Keys to Change

December 30, 2020 • 25 MIN

Change only comes to men when they change what they do. However many men have tried and failed or they don't know where to start. This episode will help you by showing you the keys to bringing change into your life. You have to change your mindset and be willing to do things differently.

A Man's Christmas Gift to Himself

December 23, 2020 • 22 MIN

Every man has a choice when it comes to himself. He can choose how he wants to live and why he wants to live. There are 3 things every man should choose to give himself as gifts to guarantee a better next year.

Why Men Must Engage

December 16, 2020 • 24 MIN

Too many men want to grow and improve, but they don't want to leave their safety zone. However the safety zone isn't really safe at all. It conditions men to check out and live a passive existence. men must engage with their life and we learn the 3 reasons why.

2 Keys to Your Next Year

December 9, 2020 • 20 MIN

Every man wants to see their next year be better than the one before, but without understanding some of the key issues, many men will only make the same mistakes over and over. There are 2 things every man must understand if he is really going to make positive changes for the New Year.

Every Man's Ax

December 3, 2020 • 20 MIN

What are you doing to stay sharp as a man? Are you progressing, or have you quit? Today we are going to look at 2 area that make us dull and hurts us as men.

How to be a Thankful Man

November 25, 2020 • 19 MIN

Thankfulness has a lot to do with your focus. Where you focus determines your ability to be thankful. We need men who are thankful and who model thankfulness to their families. Join us as we look at 2 key areas of focus that help us know if we are being thankful or if we are even capable of being thankful.

3 Ways Men Can Prepare for Success

November 18, 2020 • 21 MIN

What keeps us from success? Is everything set against us? Is it luck or fate? Success is something that happens only when we are ready for it. This week we will learn what we need to do to be ready.

Own Your Age

November 11, 2020 • 25 MIN

Many men live wishing they were a different age. They either want to be older or younger. However, men today need to own their age and I have some tips to help you do it.

The Judge Dredd in Your Mind

November 4, 2020 • 22 MIN

The Judge Dredd in our Mind is the Inner Critic. As men we can be our own worse critic.

The Awkward Man Answer

October 28, 2020 • 23 MIN

Awkwardness is something every man deals with. The problem for us is when the feelings of awkwardness control us and keep us from growing and living our adventure as men.

How to be a Major League Man

October 21, 2020 • 21 MIN

How can we be a Major League Man? Today we are going to learn how to approach our life as men like professional athletes. If we get some key truths into our lives, we will see benefits that affect us and all those we care about.

Why Men Need Priorities

October 14, 2020 • 17 MIN

Many of us feel a constant sense of overwhelm in our lives. Time seems to go so fast and we never get everything done! However, the main issue is not more time, but having the right priorities in our life. Today we are going to be connecting with 3 reasons men need priorities in their life.

Overcoming Limiting Beliefs

October 14, 2020 • 17 MIN

Many men struggle with their own limiting beliefs. Today we are going to learn 3 things we can do to start fighting and overcoming our own limiting beliefs.

Decluttering the Male Mind

October 14, 2020 • 17 MIN

What do we do with all the clutter in our brains as men? This episode we will talk about the concept of brain boxes and how they can help us declutter our mind. This will empower us to think and communicate more clearly.

Introducing The Confident Man Podcast

October 8, 2020 • 9 MIN

This is our first show of the confident man podcast. In it, I talk about what the show will be about and my passion to help men live a confident life.