Forgive Yourself
Host Brenda Reiss is a Freedom and Forgiveness coach, and a person just like you that is learning to navigate life and all its challenges. She teaches a forgiveness process like no other. It's a blend of practical and spiritual forgiveness. This process guides you into knowing how unforgiveness can be keeping you stuck in your relationships, both personally and professionally, preventing you from releasing resentment and finding joy. Each week I share practical and some not so practical tips, tools, and advice from myself and other people that are on this journey just like us. This is for you if you are ready to turn your pain into peace. Welcome to the Forgive Yourself podcast.
From Debt to Destiny: Transforming Self-Worth into Net Worth with Tresa Leftenant
April 19, 2024 • 41 MIN
Do you struggle with money? Is debt weighing you down? Tresa Leftenant is here to help you cultivate confidence, conquer debt, and begin living a wealthy life. Are you ready?!! In this episode, I talk with Tresa Leftenant, a Certified Financial Planner (CFP®) and Behavioral Finance Advisor (BFA™) with over four decades of comprehensive financial planning and wealth advisory experience. Tresa is also a certified Canfield trainer of the Success Principles, a beautiful speaker, podcaster, and transformation facilitator. Tresa's Master Work is a handbook for women ready to change their financial lives called Reinventing Her. In this empowering guide, she openly shares her own transformation with money, relationships, and career, and encourages women to upgrade their lives by learning and living the steps she created to change her own life. Tresa's expertise is the connection between self-worth and net worth - how women can engage in inner work to unleash their “living a wealthy life” mindset. "If there is some empowerment inside that I am inherently valuable, and therefore I deserve to have whatever that amount of money is going to provide for me, then I'm willing to take the actions. I'm willing to learn how to take the risk to become comfortable with behavior that is required to let my money grow on itself, which is what investing is." During our interview, Tresa discusses how our emotions and beliefs around money directly impact our financial outcomes. She shares her personal story of growing up with a banker father and a mother who constantly compared their lifestyle to others, leading Tresa to develop unhealthy money habits like using credit cards for approval. Tresa emphasizes that the number one reason women struggle financially is due to the family story and societal messages they've internalized about money, not their ability. She unpacks how women often struggle to feel worthy of wealth and financial abundance, and how this self-worth piece is the key to unlocking a more empowered relationship with money. This episode is a must-listen for any woman who feels stuck or dissatisfied with her current financial situation. Tresa provides a roadmap for doing the inner work to shift your money mindset, overcome limiting beliefs, and step into your natural abundance. Whether your goal is to become a millionaire or simply gain more control and peace around your finances, Tresa's wisdom and guidance can help you make the shift. "We can grow the way we love and respect and trust ourselves, and then our behavior with money will change, and the outward results will change." To learn more about Tresa Leftenant and her work, visit her new website A Wealthy Life for Her at https://awealthylifeforher.com/. Tresa also offers a free monthly Wealth Circles group coaching call where women come together to support each other in transforming their relationship with money. Sign up at the website to reserve your spot. Thanks again for listening! Please share with someone you know who could benefit from this episode, I appreciate it, and so will they. Resources: Your FREE Forgive Yourself resources: https://brendareisscoaching.com/podcast-resource-optin/ Are you struggling with a situation or a person in your life? Wondering if you are ready to work on forgiving yourself? Take our quiz to find out your emotional IQ and how this impacts your ability to forgive: https://archetype.brendareisscoaching.com/sf/357cdc60
Forgiveness as the Key to Entrepreneurial Success with Wonderful Morrison
April 5, 2024 • 44 MIN
Can forgiveness grow your business? Absolutely! Find out how forgiveness transformed Wonderful Morrison’s business in this episode. Wonderful Morrison is a renowned brand and marketing architect with over 25 years of experience. Wonderful is the visionary founder of Lead Her, a brand and marketing consultancy firm that empowers women and amplifies their influence. As a seasoned business professional, author, and speaker, Wonderful has established herself as a driving force in the industry. Through Lead Her, she has pioneered an online business training hub and a boutique branding and marketing consultancy. Her expertise lies in helping women entrepreneurs build successful, impactful businesses. "In order for my business to grow and for my income to grow, I had to grow with it also. The simultaneous growth of a business and a person is crucial." Any entrepreneur, especially women in business, needs to listen in to this episode. Especially those who are feeling stuck, stagnant, or ready to take their business to the next level. Wonderful's story demonstrates that by addressing personal growth and inner work, you can unlock the keys to sustainable, fulfilling business growth. To learn more about Wonderful Morrison and her work, check out her private Facebook group, Lead Her Biz Community, where she shares valuable insights and strategies. You can also connect with her on social media under her name, Wonderful Morrison, or visit the Lead Her Biz Academy website to explore her upcoming app and consultancy services. Wonderful is committed to empowering women entrepreneurs to build the business of their dreams, and this episode is a testament to the power of forgiveness in that journey. Resources: Your FREE Forgive Yourself resources: https://brendareisscoaching.com/podcast-resource-optin/ Are you struggling with a situation or a person in your life? Wondering if you are ready to work on forgiving yourself? Take our quiz to find out your emotional IQ and how this impacts your ability to forgive: https://archetype.brendareisscoaching.com/sf/357cdc60
Navigating the Journey to Your Highest Truth with Jennifer Spor
March 29, 2024 • 41 MIN
Are you ready to unleash your soul’s truth and live unapologetically expressed? Then this is the episode for you! In this episode, I talk with Jennifer Spor, the CEO and founder of Jennifer Spor Co. and host of the Path of the Awakened Heart Podcast. Jennifer is a spiritual advisor, channel, Akashic Records and trauma-informed master consultant, and teacher for high-achieving, conscious women leaders who are here to live unapologetically expressed in their true selves and fulfill their highest destiny. Jennifer's journey into this transformative work began after a pivotal moment when she was working in retail and realized she was no longer feeling challenged or fulfilled. After the passing of her mother, Jennifer made the brave decision to leave her corporate career and embark on a journey of rediscovering her true self and purpose. Through a powerful spiritual awakening, Jennifer discovered her gifts as an intuitive, channel, and Akashic Records consultant - and felt called to support other women in doing the same. "Whenever we're feeling that call to deeper truth, we feel it in our lives. We feel it in how we're showing up. We feel like there's something more, and we may not be clear on what that is initially, yet we feel it." In our conversation, Jennifer shares with me how she helps women access their soul's truth and live fully expressed in their highest destiny. She discusses the importance of discernment between the ego and the soul's voice, the role of trauma and forgiveness in our embodiment, and how to extract ourselves from limiting 3D constructs to step into our truth. Jennifer also explains the transformative power of the Akashic Records and how accessing this sacred library can facilitate instantaneous healing and timeline shifts. "The Akashic records are one of the most direct paths to Ascension. And what is super empowering is that every single one of us can access our records. We all have them. You don't have to be gifted or super psychic... The thing is, we all have these psychic abilities. We all have the ability to access our records." This episode is a must-listen for any woman who feels the call to live more authentically, let go of fear, and step into the fullest expression of her soul's purpose. Jennifer's wisdom and insights shared with me will empower you to have the courage to make the leap, trust your intuition, and create a life that is truly aligned with who you are at the deepest level. To dive deeper with Jennifer, be sure to check out her free "Activate Your Highest Destiny" guided meditation, available at JenniferSpor.com. You can also find her on Instagram @Jennifer_Spor, where she shares inspiration and insights. Get ready to uncover your soul's truth and live unapologetically expressed! Resources: Your FREE Forgive Yourself resources: https://brendareisscoaching.com/podcast-resource-optin/ Are you struggling with a situation or a person in your life? Wondering if you are ready to work on forgiving yourself? Take our quiz to find out your emotional IQ and how this impacts your ability to forgive: https://archetype.brendareisscoaching.com/sf/357cdc60
Uncovering the Barriers to Forgiveness in the Workplace with Betsy Jordyn
March 8, 2024 • 44 MIN
In this episode, I had the pleasure of speaking with Betsy Jordyn, a brand positioning strategist who helps consultants and coaches clarify their messaging. Betsy's mission resonates deeply with me - empowering professionals to expand their positive impact. Drawing from over 30 years as an organizational consultant, Betsy witnessed firsthand the toxic cultures and unethical practices that can arise. She understands the toll of workplace betrayal, burnout and existential crises on passionate individuals striving to make a difference. "I think a lot of it comes from unresolved issues… like what got you into entrepreneurship." During our discussion, Betsy unpacked the unresolved issues that often propel people into entrepreneurship. She emphasized the need to address these deep-rooted matters through a process of acceptance and forgiveness in order to truly move forward. Together, we explored the insidious nature of toxic positivity - the pressure to always remain upbeat and deny difficult emotions. Betsy wisely advocated for acknowledging how we feel, setting boundaries, and disengaging from environments that don't respect our humanity. The key takeaway is that personal, professional and spiritual growth intertwine. By doing the work of forgiveness and healing past hurts, we build a solid foundation for success across all life arenas. This conversation holds particular relevance for high-achievers venturing into consulting or coaching. It provides a compassionate roadmap for the challenges and opportunities that arise. To connect with Betsy's wisdom further, visit her website and podcast "Enough Already." Her insights are invaluable for creating businesses and lives we love. I'm grateful to Betsy for this candid look at integrating our whole selves into our work. Tune in if you're ready to expand your impact through self-awareness and forgiveness. Resources: https://brendareisscoaching.com
How Do I Know I Have Fully Forgiven?
February 16, 2024 • 15 MIN
Today, I address a question I recently received, "How do I know I have fully forgiven someone?" As a forgiveness coach, I share my insights on the misunderstood nature of forgiveness and its power to transform lives. And this question is quite common. "It doesn't make what they did right, it doesn't condone their behavior, it doesn't mean you reconcile… it means that you love yourself enough to do the work for you, not for them." Thanks for listening, and please share with someone you know who might benefit, I appreciate it. Resources: Your FREE Forgive Yourself resources: https://brendareisscoaching.com/podcast-resource-optin/ Notes and More Episodes – https://brendareisscoaching.com/
Navigating Family Estrangement: Tools for Finding Healing and Acceptance
February 9, 2024 • 23 MIN
In this episode, I address the complex dilemma of family estrangement in response to a listener struggling to reconcile with their child. Drawing from my experience as a forgiveness coach, I offer guidance on navigating the challenges of strained family relationships. Having helped many individuals and families heal over the years, I understand the intricacies of estrangement and the deep emotions involved. I emphasize the importance of honoring each family member's personal journey and highlight that estrangement can occur beyond blood relatives. "We know in our heart of hearts what we've done or not done as a parent." My advice stresses self-reflection, personal growth, and forgiveness as crucial first steps before attempting to mend the relationship. I acknowledge every family dynamic is unique and share real examples to illustrate the complexities many face. My goal is to create a compassionate, non-judgmental space for people experiencing estrangement to explore their feelings and find acceptance. This episode offers insights for parents struggling to reconcile with estranged children. "We can only make amends for what we've done, not how someone else is interpreting what we have done." While there are no easy solutions, through thoughtful inner work we can find peace and clarity. I encourage parents to be gentle with themselves on this difficult journey. My door is always open to those needing support. Tune in to gain perspective on family estrangement and discover pathways to healing. With an open heart, we can understand our loved ones and ourselves more deeply. Thanks for listening, and please share with someone you know who might benefit, I appreciate it. Resources: Your FREE Forgive Yourself resources: https://brendareisscoaching.com/podcast-resource-optin/ Are you struggling with a situation or a person in your life? Wondering if you are ready to work on forgiving yourself? Take our quiz to find out your emotional IQ and how this impacts your ability to forgive: https://archetype.brendareisscoaching.com/sf/357cdc60 Brenda’s Website/Links Website – https://brendareisscoaching.com/ Facebook – https://www.facebook.com/Brenda.Reiss.Coach/ Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/brendareisscoaching/ Twitter - https://twitter.com/brendareiss1 LinkedIn – https://www.linkedin.com/in/brendareiss/
Steps for Self-Forgiveness, Self-Love and Meditation: A Journey of Healing
January 26, 2024 • 42 MIN
In this episode, I share my journey of self-forgiveness after caring for my husband with dementia. Drawing from the transformative process I underwent, I offer guidance for you if you are also navigating your own path to self-forgiveness. "Forgiving yourself is an act of self-love and growth." As an experienced forgiveness coach, I understand the complex emotions that surface when we face situations requiring self-forgiveness. I empathize with those dealing with guilt, remorse, and regret. My own experience taught me the importance of acknowledging my actions and facing my feelings instead of suppressing them. I discuss the value of creating awareness, reflecting on the impact of my actions, accepting responsibility, and finding self-compassion. I emphasize treating ourselves with the same kindness we would show a friend during difficult times. Self-forgiveness is an act of understanding, not justification. My journey illuminates how self-forgiveness leads to self-acceptance and inner peace. I outline the steps you can use to embark on your own healing process. My goal is to provide compassionate support, so you can find forgiveness, and move forward. "Accept imperfection, embrace the fact that no one's perfect and mistakes are an inherent part of life." I hope my story inspires you to show yourself grace and understand that you, too, can find freedom through self-forgiveness. Thanks for listening, and please share with someone you know who might benefit, I appreciate it. Resources - Your FREE Forgive Yourself resources: https://brendareisscoaching.com/podcast-resource-optin/ Brenda’s Website – https://brendareisscoaching.com/
The Neuroscience of Forgiveness: Rewiring the Brain for a Happier, Healthier Life with Staci Danford
December 15, 2023 • 47 MIN
In this episode, I talk with Staci Danford about the transformative power of forgiveness and the importance of incorporating it into our daily lives. Staci, a joyful mix of positivity and neuroscience, holds a master’s degree in mind brain education and speaks publicly on gratitude, including for ABC’s “Good Morning Texas.” With over 25 years of teaching and communication experience, Staci runs the Grateful Brain, using neuroscience to promote understanding of our brain power. Staci’s mind brain education credentials make her the perfect guest to explain the science behind forgiveness and its mental and physical impacts. She describes how our brains create negative self-patterns that release cortisol, harming our bodies. Staci shares practical strategies to interrupt these patterns, like using your name to refocus or positive self-talk to retrain your brain. "We cannot hate ourselves into a version that we love." - Staci Danford During our discussion, Staci emphasizes that gratitude is about experiencing the emotion, not just saying thanks. She provides six quick ways to spark joy, including finding one good thing and describing it thoroughly. This episode is essential for anyone seeking to unlock forgiveness and self-love. Whether you struggle with self-loathing, past trauma, or want to improve overall wellness, Staci’s insights and tips will inspire and guide your happier, healthier life journey. Listeners ready to embrace brain power, forgiveness, and gratitude can discover more about Staci at www.thegratefulbrain.com. They can also get free motivational messages and practical brain tips by texting 817-242-6831. Don’t miss this chance to unleash forgiveness and transform your life! More info and resources: https://brendareisscoaching.com/
Overcoming People Pleasing: From Approval-Seeking to Self-Acceptance
November 24, 2023 • 36 MIN
In this episode, I talk about the concept of being a people pleaser and the steps I took to overcome this behavior pattern. I share my own experiences as a recovering people pleaser and emphasize the importance of self-reflection and self-care in the process of letting go of this coping mechanism. "Learn to establish and communicate your own personal boundaries. It's okay to say no when something doesn't align with your values or priorities." Thanks for listening, and please share with someone you know who might benefit, I appreciate it. Resources: Your FREE Forgive Yourself resources: https://brendareisscoaching.com/podcast-resource-optin/
Navigating the Guilt Maze: Understanding Healthy and Unhealthy Guilt
November 17, 2023 • 37 MIN
In this episode, I talk about the concept of guilt, specifically focusing on distinguishing between healthy guilt and unhealthy guilt. I share my expertise on the topic, discussing the characteristics of each type of guilt and how they impact our emotions and actions. "When we can sit with ourselves... it can help you observe guilt as it arises, and then you can decide whether it serves as a constructive purpose or it is detrimental to your well-being." I provide valuable strategies for managing guilt effectively. I emphasize the importance of self-reflection, defining personal values, and seeking feedback from trusted individuals. I also encourage mindfulness and self-compassion as tools for recognizing and addressing guilt. Join me on this insightful episode as I help you navigate the guilt maze and find ways to ease the burden of unhealthy guilt. I would love for you to live a guilt-free life. Thanks for listening, and please share with someone you know who might benefit, I appreciate it. Website – https://brendareisscoaching.com/
Understanding Complex Shame: A Journey of Healing and Personal Growth with Dr. Zoe Shaw
October 27, 2023 • 36 MIN
Today, meet Dr. Zoe Shaw, a licensed psychotherapist, author, and relationship coach who is passionate about helping women overcome shame and codependency. Dr. Zoe's approach incorporates psychology, faith, and a touch of feminism, creating a unique lens through which she guides her clients towards self-acceptance and personal growth. This is another special conversation from my recent summit: Unlocking the True Power of Forgiveness Secrets to Incorporating Forgiveness into Your Daily Life. “Overcoming complex shame is where you find freedom and the ability to smile again.” - Zoe Shaw In this episode, you will be able to: - Uncover the root causes of complex shame and discover healing techniques that can transform your life. - Learn practical steps to release shame and cultivate self-compassion, leading to a greater sense of freedom and acceptance. - Explore the power of self-forgiveness as a crucial part of the healing process, and experience the transformative effects it can have on your well-being. - Understand how shame can manifest in physical symptoms and discover strategies to alleviate the impact on your body and mind. - Discover a holistic approach to healing, integrating cognitive, spiritual, and physiological practices to create a comprehensive path towards healing and self-discovery. And more! Thanks for listening, and please share with someone you know who might benefit, I appreciate it. More info and resources: https://brendareisscoaching.com/
Owning Your Story and Finding Your Voice with Carol Cox
October 20, 2023 • 38 MIN
Carol Cox helps women entrepreneurs to be vulnerable and share their stories to make a bigger impact in the world. Learn how powerful it can be to release your inner thought leader and redefine your personal brand. This is another special conversation we had as part of my recent summit: Unlocking the True Power of Forgiveness Secrets to Incorporating Forgiveness into Your Daily Life. "Your story matters because your audience will find the lesson for themselves. Share your story and own it, because it has shaped you and it matters." - Carol Cox In this episode, you will be able to: - Enhance your personal branding and establish yourself as a thought leader by leveraging the power of vulnerability and storytelling. - Share your authentic personal stories to empower other women and inspire positive change. - Explore the impact of personal stories on your audience and learn how to connect with them on a deeper level. - Receive expert coaching and guidance to elevate your thought leadership and amplify your message. - Unlock the secrets to effective storytelling and captivate your audience with your unique journey. - Discover the strategies to create a memorable personal brand and position yourself as an authority in your field. - Gain confidence and effectiveness in thought leadership by harnessing the power of storytelling and vulnerability. And more! Thanks for listening, and please share with someone you know who might benefit, I appreciate it. More info and resources: https://brendareisscoaching.com/
Trusting Intuition, Letting Go, and Embracing Radical Forgiveness with Lorree Appleby
October 13, 2023 • 45 MIN
My special guest is Lorree Appleby, an incredible individual who has dedicated her life to helping others find inner peace and personal growth through the power of forgiveness. This is a special conversation we had as part of my recent summit: Unlocking the True Power of Forgiveness Secrets to Incorporating Forgiveness into Your Daily Life. Does this sound familiar? You've been told to simply forgive and forget in order to find inner peace and personal growth. But deep down, you know that it's not that easy. You've tried to suppress your pain, bury your past mistakes, and ignore the nagging feeling that something is missing. Yet, despite your efforts, the pain still lingers, and you're left feeling stuck, unfulfilled, and disconnected from yourself. It's time to break free from the ineffective action of surface-level forgiveness and discover the power of radical forgiveness as a lifestyle. "Radical forgiveness has changed everything for me. It changed how I thought, how I felt, and how I saw myself. It helped me unravel all the stories I had and gave me tools to move from judgment to peace." - Lorree Appleby In this episode, you will be able to: - Discover the transformative power of Radical Forgiveness as a lifestyle and find inner peace like never before. - Learn the importance of self-forgiveness and unlock the key to releasing emotional baggage and embracing personal growth. - Develop trust in yourself and your intuition, empowering you to make confident decisions that align with your true desires. - Shift perspectives and reframe challenging situations, allowing you to find meaning and growth even in the most difficult circumstances. - Harness the healing power of playfulness and imagination to unlock your creativity, cultivate joy, and experience deep emotional healing. And more! Thanks for listening, and please share with someone you know who might benefit, I appreciate it. More info and resources: https://brendareisscoaching.com/
Cultivating Self-Love: The Key to Unlocking Your Well-Being
September 29, 2023 • 36 MIN
If you're feeling trapped in a cycle of self-doubt and self-criticism, constantly questioning your worth and abilities, then you are not alone! Despite the efforts you put into seeking validation from others and striving for perfection, the pain of not feeling good enough persists. The constant comparison to others and the fear of failure only fuel the self-loathing, leaving you disconnected from your own worth and happiness. Learning to love oneself is an essential journey that requires patience, self-compassion, and practice. In this episode, you will be able to: - Gain an appreciation for the significant role self-love plays in holistic wellness. - Master the art of self-compassion and gentle kindness towards oneself. - Understand how to implement firm and healthy boundaries in both personal and professional spheres. - Walk through the transformative path of self-forgiveness and accepting your flaws. And more! Thanks for listening, and please share with someone you know who might benefit, I appreciate it. More info and resources: https://brendareisscoaching.com/
Coming Out of the Dark
September 22, 2023 • 33 MIN
Join me as I delve into the depths of grief and the transformative power of forgiveness in this raw and vulnerable episode. Tune in to discover the untold secrets of resilience and forgiveness in the face of unimaginable challenges. Life happens for you, not to you. Even amidst the darkness, allow yourself to feel the pain and be in the depth of it, because it's through this process that healing and growth can occur. In this episode, you will be able to: - Unlock the healing power of forgiveness when grappling with loss. - Learn to tackle the difficulties of being a caretaker to a partner with degenerative conditions. - Delve into the mystifying phase of the 'dark night of the soul' and transition. - Discover how anticipatory grief impacts psychological health and emotional stability. - Recognize the need for seeking help and forming dependable relationships when dealing with grief. Thanks for listening, and please share with someone you know who might benefit, I appreciate it. More info and resources: https://brendareisscoaching.com/
Breaking Down Barriers: How to Embrace Receptivity and Unlock Personal Growth
September 8, 2023 • 30 MIN
If you frequently find yourself plagued by doubt and frustration, questioning every decision you make and struggling to muster the confidence needed to achieve your goals, it's important to remember that you are not alone. Many people share these exact feelings. Despite your best efforts, you may find yourself trapped in negative patterns, unable to break free and embrace the personal transformation you desire. You may be receiving resistance from within yourself or encountering external obstacles that hinder your progress. But fear not, there are strategies and techniques available to overcome these barriers and unlock your true potential. Opening yourself to receive requires letting down defenses and allowing others to see you in a more authentic light. Embracing vulnerability can lead to deeper connections and greater personal growth. - Brenda Reiss In this episode, you will be able to: - Discover the invisible obstacles that restrain your receptivity and master tactics to surmount them. - Identify how fear of vulnerability can constrain your willingness to receive and ascertain techniques to overcome it. - Acknowledge the detrimental role of perfectionism and self-reliance in accepting help and educate yourself on strategies for personal evolution. - Understand the role of negative self-perception in accepting support and constructive criticism, emphasizing personal development. - Discern how busy schedules and stress can serve as obstacles to reception, and explore effective strategies for a balanced lifestyle. Thanks for listening, and please share with someone you know who might benefit, I appreciate it. More info and resources: https://brendareisscoaching.com/
Letting Go: 5 Questions to Help You Discover Forgiveness
September 1, 2023 • 31 MIN
Discover the power of self-forgiveness and taking accountability for your actions in this thought-provoking podcast. Uncover the cost of holding onto unforgiveness and the transformative benefits of letting go. But what happens when forgiveness becomes a difficult choice, leaving you hanging in the balance of unresolved conflict? Find out in this intriguing episode where I respond to five important questions I’ve received about forgiveness. Forgiveness is a release for you. It's letting go of that heavy energy and freeing yourself from hanging on to all the guilt and shame. - Brenda Reiss In this episode, you will be able to: - Uncover the healing power of self-forgiveness and maintaining personal accountability. - Discover the liberation that comes from shedding the weight of grudges and bitterness. - Learn how the act of forgiving others can lead to deeper self-discovery. - Realize the importance of self-awareness without falling into the trap of self-judgment. - Experience the life-altering impact of forgiveness on your personal well-being. And more! Thanks for listening, and please share with someone you know who might benefit, I appreciate it. More info and resources: https://brendareisscoaching.com/
Unlocking the Power of Habits: How to Create Lasting Change
August 18, 2023 • 18 MIN
Unlock the power of self-transformation as I, Brenda Reiss, unravel the secrets of creating life-changing habits, celebrating the irony of my own struggle to stick with routines, and revealing the essential components that will revolutionize your personal growth and self-care journey. In this episode, you will be able to: - Discover how cultivating fresh habits can propel your personal growth and self-care regimen. - Uncover the bedrock factors of habit formation: behavior, trigger, and gratification. - Realize the profound role habits play in designing our personality and facilitating goal attainment. - Recognize the significance of honing in on behavior, cue, and payoff for prosperous habit adaptation. - Gain insight into creating new habits as a means of practicing self-care and self-acceptance. More info and resources: https://brendareisscoaching.com/
Overcoming Regret: Healing and Finding Forgiveness
July 28, 2023 • 17 MIN
Do you long for inner peace and self-acceptance, free from the burden of regret? Wondering how you can attain healing and forgiveness, paving the way for a brighter future? Look no further! I have the solution you've been searching for, equipping you with the tools to unlock personal growth and find solace within yourself. Discover the transformative power of releasing regret and embracing self-forgiveness, allowing you to create a life filled with joy and fulfillment. In this episode, you will be able to: - Discern the underestimated role of regret in steering the course of our lives. - Delve into the relationship between regret and the burden of guilt and self-blame. - Grasp the regret born out of missed chances and hesitations. - Expose the physical, emotional, and mental repercussions of living with regret. - Master the art of forgiving oneself and fostering self-love as a measure to overcome regret. More info and resources: https://brendareisscoaching.com/
Letting Go: Steps to Release Pain and Find Peace
July 14, 2023 • 25 MIN
Maybe you've been told to just let it go and move on when it comes to pain and negative emotions. But no matter how hard you try, the pain still lingers, weighing you down. It's frustrating, isn't it? You deserve to find peace and move forward in life, free from the burden of past hurts. In this episode, I'll uncover the secret to overcoming emotional hurdles and letting go of negative feelings. Say goodbye to the ineffective advice and embrace powerful techniques that will finally bring you the relief and healing you've been longing for. It's time to release the pain and reclaim your happiness. In this episode, you will be able to: - Master the art of unshackling yourself from negative emotions and past traumas. - Immerse yourself in effective strategies for eliminating frustration and cutting ties with past relationships. - Comprehend the detrimental effects of ruminating over past errors and how to rise above them. - Absorb the profound concept of viewing your problems as stepping stones to personal growth. - Acknowledge the significant role of staying present and stress reduction in healing and manifesting your desires. More info and resources: https://brendareisscoaching.com/
Breaking Free from Loneliness
July 7, 2023 • 16 MIN
Does this sound familiar? You tried reaching out to others, joining social activities, or even distracting yourself with busyness, but still find yourself feeling lonely? It's frustrating, isn't it? The truth is, loneliness isn't solved solely by external interactions or distractions. In fact, those actions often leave us feeling even more isolated and disconnected. If you're tired of this cycle and yearn for genuine connections and fulfilling relationships, it's time to understand the root causes of loneliness and discover effective strategies to overcome it. Join me in this episode as I unravel the personal realities of loneliness and explore transformative approaches to rise above it. In this episode, you will be able to: Delve into the human experience of loneliness, gaining a better understanding while also learning to overcome this universal emotion. Appreciate the transformative power of self-awareness and internal validation in your journey of healing loneliness. Cultivate self-compassion by fostering a non-judgmental approach to dealing with your emotions. Absorb Deepak Chopra's wisdom on maintaining centered awareness and enhancing your bond with your inner self. Experience the 'freeze-frame' technique from the HeartMath Institute to encourage a deeper exploration of your emotional landscape. More info and resources: https://brendareisscoaching.com/
The Power of Sincere Apologies: A 5-Step Framework
June 16, 2023 • 26 MIN
In this episode of Forgive Yourself, I share the neuroscience behind apologies and a five-step process for making sincere apologies. But what happens when an apology isn't enough to heal a relationship? Stay tuned to find out. “There is strength in empathy and vulnerability and taking the chance of saying I'm sorry when we are able.” In this episode, you will be able to: Unearth the profound impact of truly heartfelt apologies on achieving emotional relief and forgiveness. Familiarize yourself with an effective 5-stage technique to convey sincere apologies and ask for forgiveness. Explore the fascinating science of how apologies produce a sense of tranquility and forgiveness within the brain. Grasp the significance of managing emotions and using them as a guide to avert miscommunications. Cultivate self-compassion, self-acceptance, and pardon for personal growth and harmony with others. More info and resources: https://brendareisscoaching.com/
Master Your Emotions: Discover the 4-Step Emerge-N-See Technique
May 26, 2023 • 21 MIN
In this episode, I share an effective four-step process called the Emerge-N-See process for managing intense negative emotions. I found this process to be a game-changer recently during a difficult family conflict and I hope it can help you too. This process has helped me achieve peace and self-love, and I believe it can do the same for you. Tune in to learn more about how to manage intense negative emotions and take control of your reactions. In this episode, you will be able to: - Realize the importance of embracing self-forgiveness and self-acceptance in your emotional journey. - Tackle adverse emotions by deploying a streamlined four-step Emerge-N-See process crafted for instant relief. - Reap the rewards of owning your emotions and reactions, thus enabling personal growth and self-awareness. - Select the path of inner peace, pushing past negativity, and paving the way for a more harmonious emotional state. More info and resources: https://brendareisscoaching.com/
Tame Your Triggers: 4 Steps to Shift from Reacting to Responding
May 5, 2023 • 16 MIN
Do you want to break free from negative reactions and live a calmer life? If so, I have the solution for you. Discover the art of responding instead of reacting and experience a more peaceful and fulfilled existence. In this episode, you will be able to: > Gain clarity on the fundamental difference between reacting and responding and its significance. > Understand the impact of your core beliefs on how you react and respond in your everyday life. > Acquire a four-step technique to help you transition from hasty reactions to considered responses. > Investigate the power of journaling, meditation, and forgiveness in slowing down impulsive reactions. More info: https://brendareisscoaching.com/
The Pain of Unmet Expectations: How to Navigate & Overcome
April 14, 2023 • 19 MIN
Struggling in my relationships and feeling resentful, I had no idea that my unrealistic expectations were the culprit. Little did I know, understanding expectations took me on a journey of self-discovery, learning to accept and love myself, and developing healthier relationships. What I've gained from this experience is nothing short of life-changing - and I'm still learning. In this episode, you will be able to: Enhance your communication skills in relationships to convey expectations clearly. Spot unreasonable expectations and tackle them for healthier bonds. Appreciate the importance of diverse values or priorities among individuals. Find solace in adopting acceptance as a means to alleviate disappointment. Foster stronger connections by consciously managing expectations. More info: https://brendareisscoaching.com/
Turn Your Pain into Peace: A Journey Through Radical Forgiveness
March 31, 2023 • 19 MIN
Today I guide you through the five-stage process of Radical Forgiveness, allowing you to find peace in any situation, let go of blame and guilt, and reclaim your power. Here's what I cover: 1. What is the transformative power of radical forgiveness, and how can it heal deep emotional wounds? 2. How can shifting our perspective from victimhood to understanding, compassion, and even gratitude help us move beyond our pain? 3. What are the five stages of radical forgiveness, and how can they help us take our power back? More info: https://brendareisscoaching.com/
Loving Your Anger: Taming the Volcano with Radical Forgiveness
March 24, 2023 • 17 MIN
Feel and love your anger to free yourself and create positive change with Radical Forgiveness. Here's what I cover in this episode: 1. What is the Radical Forgiveness Process and how can it help us with our anger? 2. How can we move through anger by loving it instead of resisting it? 3. What is the message of our anger and how can we use it to create positive outcomes? More info: https://brendareisscoaching.com/
Relationships as Mirrors: Discovering Your Inner Truth Through Reflection
March 17, 2023 • 20 MIN
Discover the power of self-reflection and learn to recognize and heal the truths in your relationships. More info: https://brendareisscoaching.com/
Got Guilt? Ways to Tell if It’s Healthy or Unhealthy
March 10, 2023 • 17 MIN
Unpacking Appropriate & Inappropriate Guilt: A Life-Changing Lesson - We all feel guilty from time to time. Listen in and discover the life-changing distinction between appropriate and inappropriate guilt, unlocking the power to make amends and break free from an irrational burden. More info: https://brendareisscoaching.com/
5 Ways to Tell if You've Forgiven Someone: Releasing Anger and Bitterness
March 3, 2023 • 11 MIN
A Journey of Reflection & Release - Join me and learn if you have truly forgiven someone or if you are just pretending. Forgiveness is a conscious choice to remove the desire to get even with someone who has hurt you. And it is powerful when you can get to the place of forgiveness, it can bring you peace. More info: https://brendareisscoaching.com/
How to Forgive a Cheater
February 24, 2023 • 19 MIN
Forgiving Infidelity: How to Process Emotions, Rebuild Trust & Move On - After being betrayed by a cheating partner, it’s good to confront your own inner turmoil as you grapple with the difficult decision of whether to stay or go in order to ultimately find forgiveness and move forward. Today you will learn how to rebuild trust in your relationship after infidelity and gain insight into the lasting effects of cheating. Website & More Info – https://brendareisscoaching.com/
How to Stop Being Your Own Worst Critic
February 3, 2023 • 22 MIN
Be Your Own Best Friend: 6 Ways to Overcome Self-Criticism - In this podcast episode, I unpack the best ways to conquer the devastating habit of self-criticism through six practices, all while learning to become a friend to yourself and foster more kind and mindful thoughts. Here's what I cover: 1. How can you become a friend to yourself instead of your own worst critic? 2. What are the benefits of journaling to reduce stress and anxiety? 3. How can we challenge our negativity and foster self-compassion in our daily lives? And more!
How to Find Your Life’s Purpose: Uncovering Your Inner Voice
January 27, 2023 • 13 MIN
An introspective look into your life may reveal buried trauma and patterns of self-doubt. You must be courageous and summon your inner strength to discover your unique purpose in life and forge a new path.
We Weigh What We Weigh
January 24, 2023 • 23 MIN
In this episode, I share my journey of self-discovery which is catalyzed when my sponsor reveals the powerful truth that we weigh what we weigh - whether we get on the scale or not - and I learned to take radical responsibility and break the cycle of denial.
How to Avoid Quitters Day
January 13, 2023 • 20 MIN
This episode of the Forgive Yourself Podcast discusses setting New Year's resolutions/goals vs intentions and the difference between them. I learned that resolutions or goals can have a more negative connotation to them, while intentions feel more heartfelt and nurturing. In this episode, you will learn the following: 1. The difference between New Year's resolutions, goals, and intentions. 2. The potential causes and solutions for perfectionism and fear of failure, which can lead to abandoning New Year's resolutions. 3. The power of setting intentions versus resolutions and goals, and how to use them to achieve desired outcomes.
Delightfully Surprised
January 10, 2023 • 20 MIN
After enduring an emotionally tough few years, I have found myself embarking on a journey to discover the power of self-forgiveness, acceptance, and resilience as I seek to transform my life with my two phrases for 2023: "Optimal Health" and "Delightfully Surprised". You will learn: 1. How did my phrases for the year help me through a difficult time of grief, shock, and change? 2. What tips can be learned from a journey of self-forgiveness and self-acceptance? 3. How can we use the reticular activating system in our brain to bring joy and be delighted?
Powerless or Powerful - Radical Responsibility
December 30, 2022 • 15 MIN
In this episode, learn how you can take back your power from a life of blame and victimhood to become radically responsible. By learning to take ownership of your behavior, choices and actions, you'll be able to reclaim your inner freedom. In this episode, you will learn the following: 1. How can we turn feeling powerless into powerful? 2. What do we need to know about radical responsibility? 3. How can we learn to take responsibility for ourselves and our decisions? Your FREE worksheet: https://brendareisscoaching.com/podcast-resource-optin/
Family Dynamics & Roles - Uncovering Yours & Discovering Their Impact
December 23, 2022 • 23 MIN
Uncover how family dynamics and roles shape who we are today and how we interact with others. In this episode you will learn: 1. What role did you have to play in your family growing up? 2. How do family dynamics significantly impact health in both positive and negative ways? 3. How can you create awareness and set boundaries to take control of the roles and dynamics you experience in family and relationships?
A Journey Through Grief and Forgiveness
December 20, 2022 • 24 MIN
After a series of unexpected events, a fixer's journey of grief leads them to discover the power of forgiveness, and the importance of embracing the new - no matter how difficult. You will learn: 1. What do grief and forgiveness have in common? 2. What are the best and worst things to say to someone in grief? 3. What are five tips to help with grief during the holidays?
Why It Is Hard To Forgive
December 2, 2022 • 19 MIN
Embrace forgiveness as a powerful tool for inner peace and lasting healing. In the episode you will learn: 1. What are five reasons it's hard to forgive, and how can we make it easier? 2. Is there a secret to releasing anger and resentment in a healthy way? 3. How can we protect ourselves from being hurt again without numbing out our emotions?
3 Steps to Releasing Resentments
November 25, 2022 • 19 MIN
If you're struggling to forgive someone, this episode is for you. We'll go through The Forgiveness Process so that you can find peace of mind.
The Choice Point of Forgiveness
November 18, 2022 • 8 MIN
What if forgiveness was the key to happiness? In this episode you will learn: 1) What are the consequences of not forgiving? 2) What is forgiveness, and what is it not? 3) How can we forgive, even if the person who hurt us never apologizes? To learn about and sign up for the upcoming Freedom Through Forgiveness 7-Week Program, go to: https://brendareisscoaching.com/workshops
Forgiveness Liberates You
November 11, 2022 • 12 MIN
Forgiving liberates you from your past and allows you to live a more peaceful and fulfilling life. In this episode, we're talking about forgiveness and what it can actually do for you. Did you know that forgiveness is a choice? That we can actually choose to forgive or choose not to forgive? It is up to us to determine when we are ready to make that decision. Forgiveness can bring a lot of benefits into our lives, including decreased levels of anger and hostility, increased feelings of love, enhanced capacity to trust, and freedom from the events of our past. New studies are also showing that forgiveness can improve our endurance and manifesting ability. However, forgiveness is not always easy. We may not always be ready or willing to forgive someone who has hurt us. That's why it's important to understand what forgiveness is and what it is not. Forgiveness is not forgetting, condoning, excusing, or saying that somebody hurting you is okay. It is essential that forgiveness not be seen as obligatory. If you're struggling to forgive someone, remember that it is a choice. It's up to you to decide when you're ready to forgive. And most importantly, forgiveness is for you and not the other person. In this episode, you will learn the following: 1. What are the benefits of forgiveness? 2. What does forgiveness mean? 3. What happens when we don't forgive? I’m grateful you’re here, and I look forward to guiding you towards forgiveness in your life through this podcast. If you enjoy the show, please share it with someone you think might also find it beneficial. Thanks so much for listening! Are you struggling with a situation or a person in your life? Wondering if you are ready to work on forgiving yourself? Take our quiz to find out your emotional IQ and how this impacts your ability to forgive: https://archetype.brendareisscoaching.com/sf/357cdc60
Welcome to the Forgive Yourself Podcast!
October 28, 2022 • 7 MIN
Raise your hand if you've ever experienced having a resentment I'm raising my hand, are you? It was a buildup of these resentments that actually got me into the forgiveness work, and I didn't even know I needed forgiveness. Because of my own hurt and pain, I had learned to go more logical rather than heartfelt for protection. Can you relate? If you can, listen in... For show notes and more, head to https://brendareisscoaching.com/