Sarah is Author of
‘Where Did You Learn To Behave Like That? A Coaching Guide for Working With Leaders’ and ‘
Dare to….’, which is a companion journal to the book. Working globally, she is an internationally recognised expert in childhood story work with leaders providing a way for them to do deeper work on the Self. She is also co-Author of
‘The Tao of Dialogue’, which was published in 2019, has taught at the Said Business School, Henley Business School, Harvard Business School and Hult-Ashridge.
In this podcast episode Sarah discusses various ways in which we behave in particular situations, e.g. someone who is not at the centre of group discussions, watching from the outside but not participating - a bystander. You can become a stuck bystander and become silent. A deeper exploration looks at where this behaviour comes from. What's the story behind this behaviour? For example where you told only to speak when spoken to? What is your internal narrative and is this still serving you well now?
A lot of old stories are quite harsh- you might be telling yourself for example that you should never challenge other people even if they do you harm.
We can rewrite our internal narrative(s) and we can live a new narrative, for example we can change the old narrative of 'I am not good enough' to 'I have value, I am good at this'.
Love is a theme in Sarah's work. Allowing your Self to be loved is vital.
Find out more about Sarah and her work at
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