I know when it comes to relationships and programs we are looking for the steps to take, the things to do, the exact actions that create change.  But what if I were to tell you that this is like shutting the door after the horse has bolted. It's what happens BEFORE the action that is the driver of everything, that's rich and powerful and full of potential. In today's episode of Relatable, I explore what this is, why it is so powerful and how once you see it, life and relationships become infinitely easier and effortless.