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Surviving Master Joshua: Self-Actualization and Kink
August 26, 2022
There have been many different approaches to BDSM in books over the years. This week, I am interviewing the author of the new book “Surviving Master Joshua: The BSDM Memoir of a Cheating Wife” and Master Joshua. We will hear how they met and how things between them evolved. We will also hear about Master Joshua’s philosophies and how he works with clients. How he works with them and how he helps them discover their authentic selves. Join us… They are also offering the Kindle version of the book for only $1 on Amazon during the month of August 2022.
Premiere Thursday, August 25, 2022, at 9 pm ET/6 pm PT

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About Surviving Master Joshua: BDSM Memoir of an Unfaithful Wife

Master Joshua is a pansexual, polyamorous pro-Dom (the term for a male Dominatrix, or a man who Dominates others for money). He leads a leather tribe and, when we met, was battling accusations of rape and abuse. Master Joshua was the intended subject of my story… until I became it. My own name doesn’t matter. I can’t use it here. Suffice to say that I was a reporter and a comfortably married mother of two. But, following Joshua deeper and deeper into New York’s sexual underground, I crossed the line between observer and participant. Our experiences changed me: I lied and cheated to facilitate them, though a lying cheater was not who I wanted to become. I wanted to remain a good wife and mother, and a decent person. So did Joshua. But we couldn’t have our cake and eat it too… or could we?

This is a true story, about one of the least understood and most sensationalized factions of LGBTQA+. But more so, it’s about my own family’s capacity to survive.

About Master Joshua:

Juggling as many job titles as he does lovers, Master Joshua is a Pro-Dom, Lifestyle Educator, NTSB (Non-Traditional Sexual Behaviours) Counselor, Spiritual Guide, Life Coach, Photographer and Fetish Media Producer. He’s also Co-Founder of “The Kink Collective,” an NYC-based leather tribe devoted to kink education and event production. His flagship endeavor is “People Before Kink” a series of online and in-person workshops focused on developing affinity and empathy. 

Through all his various endeavors, Joshua’s goal remains the same: to relieve people of shame and fear, allowing them to live as who they truly are.

About Karma Said:

Karma has departed from a decade-long career as a staff-reporter for a reputable conservative outlet to report about kink. 

She is the author of “Surviving Master Joshua: The BDSM Memoir Of An Unfaithful Wife,” and an editor at Carnal Culture Publishing, an indie publication devoted to supporting, promoting and publishing non-fiction works of kink and erotica.