In this episode, Aleeza and Rabbi talk about the three core reasons or behaviors for a relationship to be happy for a lifetime. They discuss the importance of kindness, humor, and honesty, but Aleeza wants to replace kindness with something better. Rabbi believes that trust is the most important thing in a relationship, but Aleeza argues that it's not identifiable enough. They then discuss giving and curiosity as the other two core reasons for a relationship to be happy for a lifetime. Join in this conversation by letting us know what you think the root of trust is. You can send a voice note to our socials or drop us a message on our website below. Key Points: - Trust is mentioned as the number one thing that cannot be identified at the beginning of a relationship, but can be built over time through small acts of trust. - Giving is mentioned as the second important factor for a happy relationship, as love grows from giving and developing a deeper understanding of each other. - Curiosity is mentioned as the third important factor, as it promotes continued growth and learning in the relationship. Check out the video version of this show at https://www.youtube.com/@aleezabenshalom/videos Do you want expert advice on your dating and relationship questions? Head over to www.MatchmakerMatchmaker.org to submit your queries and it might get featured in a future show. For more dating wisdom and advice, download a free copy of Aleeza's book, ‘Get Real, Get Married’ at our website www.MatchmakerMatchmaker.org