Keeping Secrets
Are you new to the kink scene and thinking about how to draw the line between your kink and vanilla life? Are you an experienced kinkster concerned about how your kink or sexual life could affect your work, future career or family? Are you wondering who and what to trust with your wallet name or your credit card?
Episode 26: Deanonymization - How little does it take to identify you
April 10, 2023 • 63 MIN
Tips to help maintain your privacy when engaging in online & offline kink exploration
Episode 25: Spring Cleaning Privacy Cleanups
April 3, 2023 • 51 MIN
After a month hiatus, the return of our Online Privacy series, Keeping Secrets!
Episode 24: How Not To Get Overwhelmed About Your Privacy
January 11, 2023 • 54 MIN
Ooof! It all seems so complicated!
Episode 23: Keeping Your Documents Private
October 12, 2022 • 52 MIN
How to avoid leaving a paper trail...
Episode 22: Kink and Privacy: Where to Start
October 12, 2022 • 60 MIN
Back to the basics of privacy!
Episode 21: Post-Roe Privacy
August 10, 2022 • 57 MIN
Keeping our privacy and our sanity in a post Roe v Wade World
Episode 20: Privacy and Conventions
July 8, 2022 • 45 MIN
Meeting at that big event? Maintain your privacy!
Episode 19: Revenge Porn, Outing and Doxxing
June 21, 2022 • 44 MIN
Tips to help maintain your privacy when engaging in online & offline kink exploration
Episode 18: Kink and the Law
May 9, 2022 • 106 MIN
Get practical and useful advice from a practicing defense lawyer and kinkster!
Episode 17: Keeping Your Privates Private with Secure Instant Messengers
April 25, 2022 • 58 MIN
Keep your virtual chats close and your instant messengers even closer!
Episode 16: Reading the Labels
April 25, 2022 • 59 MIN
This month on Keeping Secrets, we remember to read the fine print!
Episode 15: Privacy in Dating & Love
April 25, 2022 • 80 MIN
Come join us for the next episode of Keeping Secrets, where love is in the air!
Episode 14: Privacy and Fetlife
April 25, 2022 • 79 MIN
Tips to help maintain your privacy when engaging in online & offline kink exploration
Episode 13: Nonmonogamy & Your Privacy
April 25, 2022 • 98 MIN
Nonmonogamy & Your Privacy with Special Guest @writergirl
Episode 12: (Re)Joining the Scene
April 25, 2022 • 60 MIN
Are you new to the scene or maybe it’s been so long since you’re been an at a public event that it feels new?
Episode 11: Privacy and the Police (with special guest Lorenzo)
April 25, 2022 • 80 MIN
What do you do if the police come knocking on your door because the neighbors complained about the noises coming out of your home?
Episode 10: Summer Digital Detox
April 25, 2022 • 59 MIN
Lay down a towel, put on your sunscreen and get a cold drink for the next Keeping Secrets with Vir Cotto.
Episode 9: Shopping Safely While Kinky
April 25, 2022 • 61 MIN
Whether you're a nervous newbie or experienced organizer, you'll learn new terms, tricks and techniques!
Episode 8: Browsing Through Browsers Pt2 - Settings and Plugins
April 25, 2022 • 57 MIN
Whether you're a nervous newbie or experienced organizer, you'll learn new terms, tricks and techniques!
Episode 7: Privacy and Sex Work, featuring special guest Jessie Sage!
April 25, 2022 • 82 MIN
Privacy is important for kinksters, but it’s also important for people in the sex worker industry.
Episode 6: The Most Foolish Things to Do as a Kinkster Online
April 25, 2022 • 55 MIN
It’s April Fools today, so we’re covering the most FOOLish things you should never do as a kinkster online!
Episode 5: Browsing Through Browsers
April 25, 2022 • 68 MIN
What's the best web browser to use when you care about your privacy?
Episode 4: Securing Your Accounts
April 25, 2022 • 74 MIN
We hear about computer break-ins every day, where all of a company's secrets are revealed and private information is exposed. When that happens, attackers can often use what they've found to go after all of our accounts.
Episode 3: VPN, Browsers, Tor and More!
April 25, 2022 • 72 MIN
We see advertisements for VPNs, but what exactly are they? How do they work? Do they actually protect our privacy online?
Episode 2: Utilizing A Second Phone
April 25, 2022 • 79 MIN
Our phone numbers are often one of the first things we give when we meet a stranger, yet they're one of the most private things we have in our lives, staying with us at most times and carrying our entire lives. An average cell phone has personal contacts, personal photos, emails, text messages, web searches, location history and more. When giving away your phone number as a kinkster, what kind of choices can you make to keep yourself safe?
Episode 1: Attending or Hosting an Event with Privacy in Mind
April 25, 2022 • 73 MIN
Is it possible to keep your privacy when you attend an event online?