Killer Expectations

May 23, 2023 • 4 MIN

Marko shares the story of how he got fired from a church over unspoken expectations. Bad endings for youth workers are pretty always due to misaligned values or unspoken expectations.

Inviting Decisions without Manipulation

May 16, 2023 • 0 MIN

Marko shares a tension he used to struggle with, between his ability to manipulate teenagers into a faith decision and still wanting to offer those opportunities. He found help in a new mindset and language.

How Do You Want to Receive Feedback?

May 9, 2023 • 4 MIN

Marko shares five prompts to get you thinking about this important question, which you can use for your own growth in self-knowledge or with a team you do ministry alongside.

Teenagers and Anxiety

May 2, 2023 • 9 MIN

Marko quickly interviews Brock Morgan, author of The Anxious Teen, about the rise of anxiety in teenagers, and what we youth workers can do. (note: this is a double-size episode!)

What’s Your Ministry’s Achilles Heel?

April 25, 2023 • 5 MIN

Considering that little, seemingly innocuous part of your ministry that could be its downfall.

Young People Need Hope

April 18, 2023 • 6 MIN

Marko unpacks a powerful scene from Les Miserables to consider the sort of hope we all need, especially the teenagers we work with.

An Attitude of Curiosity Toward Parents

April 11, 2023 • 5 MIN

Adopting an attitude of curiosity will completely reframe your interactions with parents of teenagers.

Acknowledging and Addressing Our Weaknesses

April 4, 2023 • 5 MIN

Marko unpacks an area of his leadership that needed to change, how he became aware of it, and what he did about it.

Happy Police (Happiness, week 2)

March 28, 2023 • 7 MIN

Marko tells a story about a time he realized the lie perpetuated by so many in the church, that we can make ourselves happy by choosing it.

Happy Teenagers in a Lousy Parenting Goal (Happiness, week 1)

March 21, 2023 • 7 MIN

A message to parents of teenagers about what our goal should be, unpacking the misguided cultural shift to teenage happiness as the culturally-promoted focus of most parents.

Two Fancy Words I Made Up

March 14, 2023 • 5 MIN

Certainly you’re familiar with Orthodoxy (right belief) and Orthopraxy (right behavior); but Marko wants you to consider prioritizing Orthoanakálypsi and Orthodokimí (two words he made up!).

Criticism and Thin Skin

March 7, 2023 • 3 MIN

With a bit of vulnerability, Marko shares about times when criticism has been particularly hard for him to receive, and what he’s learned in that process.

Three Components of Great Youth Ministry

February 28, 2023 • 4 MIN

Marko takes a blazingly-short 3 minutes and 54 seconds to share his math equation for excellent youth ministry.

The Ministry of Fun

February 21, 2023 • 6 MIN

Almost all youth workers want fun to be an aspect of their youth ministry, but we often (wrongly) consider it less spiritual. Marko lists seven reasons why fun is a spiritual value.

The Long View

February 14, 2023 • 6 MIN

A humble and hopeful Long View says, “I care that a teenager is actively engaged in her faith today—and even if she walks away from it, I trust that God is going to continue working in her life.”

6 Ideas for Fueling Your Creativity

February 7, 2023 • 6 MIN

In this episode, Marko unpacks six different ways to spark your creativity.

The Importance of Storytelling

January 31, 2023 • 5 MIN

Marko talks about why storytelling is so important, and offers four practical ideas for stepping into this in your ministry.

Spiritual Formation Boarding Schools

January 24, 2023 • 5 MIN

Marko provides a quick history of how we got to this place of isolated youth ministry in the church, and points out the need for change.

Teenagers and Bible Reading

January 17, 2023 • 5 MIN

Marko interviews himself (yeah, it’s a little weird) about why it’s hard for teenagers to engage with Bible reading.

Let’s Talk About Sex, Baby

January 10, 2023 • 5 MIN

Why we avoid talking about this topic, and what that unintentionally teaches. As a bonus, Marko sings “The Sex Song” he used for years with middle schoolers when teaching on this topic.

Rethinking Belonging

December 20, 2022 • 6 MIN

A quick look at why the search for belonging has become the primary lens through which teenagers view everything, and a run through Edward Hall’s belonging theory, called Proxemics.

The Ministry of Remembering

December 13, 2022 • 5 MIN

Marko connects the memory of a child in a Haitian orphanage with the difficulty of ministry in the early months of the pandemic, with principles that still apply today (particularly for those teenagers who have not returned).

Baby Sea Turtles (and me)

December 6, 2022 • 6 MIN

Marko recounts an experience of watching baby sea turtles crawl from their nest to the ocean and unpacks a bunch of allegorical connections.

Podcasts I Listen To

November 29, 2022 • 7 MIN

Since Marko often gets asked what podcasts he listens to, he takes a few minutes to list his regular podcast consumption diet.

Nuggets | Week 4

November 22, 2022 • 4 MIN

Final week of this 4-week mini-series called Nuggets, where Marko brings four shorties for you to think about.

Nuggets | Week 3

November 15, 2022 • 5 MIN

Whoa, six nuggets this week! So much seasoning in such a little podcast!

Nuggets | Week 2

November 8, 2022 • 5 MIN

Four more nuggets this week--disconnected one-off thoughts to get you wrestling.

Nuggets | Week 1

November 1, 2022 • 5 MIN

Marko starts a 4-week mini series he’s calling “Nuggets”. it’s sort of like four or five 1 Minute with Marko bits smashed into five minutes!

Regret

October 25, 2022 • 5 MIN

God doesn’t want me, or you, to live a life of regret. But I can’t pretend my regrets don’t exist. I have to face them square on, and push into and through them, to the freedom offered on the other side.

Post Youth Ministry

October 18, 2022 • 5 MIN

After years of ranting about various changes needed in our youth ministry approaches, values, mindsets and methods, Marko got caught off guard by a suggestion from a friend about the future of youth ministry. It raised more questions for Marko than easy answers.

Paradoxes of Middle Schoolers

October 11, 2022 • 5 MIN

After 40 years in middle school ministry, Marko has identified a handful of paradoxes that those of us who work with this age group have to be aware of and lean into. It’s messy and confusing and beautiful stuff!

Asking Great Questions

October 4, 2022 • 6 MIN

Marko gets practical in this episode, describing five different types of questions (with examples of each) that should all be used to bring vibrancy to your youth ministry discussions. This would be a great episode to share with your small group leaders.

Lonely Boys

September 27, 2022 • 6 MIN

Marko has noticed an uptick in teenage guys without meaningful friendships. He unpacks why this might be, and suggests six things we can do to help.

Fueling Your Creativity

September 20, 2022 • 7 MIN

Kicking off a new season, Marko suggests a selection of passageways that will potentially lead you to creativity in your youth ministry.

Jesus Sauce

May 24, 2022 • 4 MIN

In this final episode of the season, Marko unpacks an experience of discovering a challenge in 1 Corinthians 3, and applies it to our work as youth workers.

New Realities for Teenagers

May 17, 2022 • 5 MIN

Marko identifies five new(er) cultural realities that are shaping teenagers, and different from the youth culture most of us grew up in.

Honesty About Innovation

May 10, 2022 • 7 MIN

Marko unpacks four forces that corrode innovation, and two ‘thrusters’ needed.

Four Practices of Great Parent Ministry

May 3, 2022 • 5 MIN

Winning with parents and helping them live into their own callings includes Listening, Communicating, Equipping, and Inviting Involvement.

Four Types of Curriculum

April 26, 2022 • 6 MIN

Marko unpacks Formal, Hidden, Nonformal, and Null curriculums, and asks us to bring more intentionality to all of them.

Emmanuel Year ’Round

April 5, 2022 • 4 MIN

Celebrating Emmanuel – God with us – shouldn’t be limited to the Christmas season!

Curiosity is the Serum for Judgmentalism

March 29, 2022 • 5 MIN

The increase in tribalism in our culture has brought with it an increase in judgmentalism. Marko suggests that Curiosity is our antidote.

Control or Open Hands

March 22, 2022 • 5 MIN

In this second week focused on control, Marko talks about the opposite of control: releasing your grip.

The Myth of Control

March 15, 2022 • 5 MIN

In youth ministry, we often try to control the beliefs and behaviors of teenagers. But it doesn’t work.

Tortilla Chips and Salsa

March 8, 2022 • 4 MIN

Consider this episode a ‘devotional’ thought, an encouragement to stay connected to the only One who can truly fill you up.

Responding to Brain Discoveries, Part 2

March 1, 2022 • 7 MIN

Marko has talked and written quite a bit about teenage brain development; but in this two-part episode, he reflects on how we should respond to brain discoveries.

Responding to Brain Discoveries, part 1

February 22, 2022 • 6 MIN

Marko has talked and written quite a bit about teenage brain development; but in this two-part episode, he reflects on how we should respond to brain discoveries.

A “Nothing Prevents You” Ministry

February 15, 2022 • 3 MIN

A reflection on the story of Philip and the Ethiopian Eunuch, and what it might say about the approach to great youth ministry.

Aligned With Your Calling

February 8, 2022 • 3 MIN

Marko shares the story of Marvin, a 60-something youth worker who tried to run away from his calling to youth ministry.

A Reminder of Why We Do What We Do

February 1, 2022 • 3 MIN

Marko shares a short and moving story about a youth worker who thought he’d blown it, but was actually being used by God in exactly the right way.

1 Kings 19 Rewritten for Youth Workers

January 25, 2022 • 3 MIN

Part 6 of Marko’s snarky 6-part sub-season of scripture rewritten for youth workers.

Psalm 23 & Luke 5 Rewritten for Youth Workers

January 18, 2022 • 4 MIN

Part 5 of Marko’s snarky 6-part sub-season of scripture rewritten for youth workers.

2 Corinthians 11 & 12 Rewritten for Youth Workers

January 11, 2022 • 3 MIN

Part 4 of Marko’s snarky 6-part sub-season of scripture rewritten for youth workers. Learn more about The Youth Cartel's coaching and resources at https://theyouthcartel.com.

Daniel 3 Rewritten for Youth Workers

January 4, 2022 • 8 MIN

Part 3 of Marko’s snarky 6-part sub-season of scripture rewritten for youth workers.

2 Timothy 1 & 2 Rewritten for Youth Workers

December 14, 2021 • 5 MIN

Part 2 of Marko’s snarky 6-part sub-season of scripture rewritten for youth workers.

Exodus 3 & 4 Rewritten for Youth Workers

December 8, 2021 • 4 MIN

Part 1 of Marko’s snarky 6-part sub-season of scripture rewritten for youth workers.

Be Courageous

November 30, 2021 • 4 MIN

In what aspect of your ministry do you need to try something new?

The Myth of Balance

November 16, 2021 • 5 MIN

Balance isn’t a biblical goal; sustainability and thriving are.

Traditions and Sacred Cows

November 9, 2021 • 5 MIN

Traditions in youth ministry are awesome until they become objects of worship.

The Intersection of Intentionality and Faith

November 2, 2021 • 5 MIN

These two choices--intentionality and faith--define the gooey center of great youth ministry.

The Glass is (at Least) Half Full

October 26, 2021 • 4 MIN

Are you weary in ministry? Let’s celebrate the unflashy path of consistency.

The Extension of Adolescence

October 19, 2021 • 4 MIN

Naming and resisting the factors that have made adolescence of 20-year journey in our culture.

The Seduction of Ease

October 12, 2021 • 4 MIN

Marko unpacks why ease is the enemy of growth.

The Patience of Plodding

October 5, 2021 • 5 MIN

It’s difficult not to see the value of determination and a ruthless commitment to one mission while standing on The Great Wall of China.

10 Percent Wrong

September 28, 2021 • 4 MIN

Even if accusations or criticism are 90% wrong, wisdom addresses the 10%.

What Would I Do Differently?

September 21, 2021 • 4 MIN

If I could go back and start all over again in youth ministry, what would I change?

Helping Teens Meet the Real Jesus

September 14, 2021 • 4 MIN

Let’s help teenagers examine their childhood images of Jesus and meet the real Jesus.

Stretching Toward Faith in Ministry

September 7, 2021 • 4 MIN

A church capital campaign causes Marko to reflect on how he’s exercising faith in youth ministry.

The Power of Small

August 31, 2021 • 4 MIN

The pathway to great youth ministry is shorter in smaller churches.

Teenagers and Risk

August 24, 2021 • 4 MIN

Teenagers are naturally (and wonderfully) wired for risk. Our ministries should reflect this truth.

What Redwood Trees Teach Us About Youth Ministry

August 17, 2021 • 4 MIN

Staring at some massive redwood trees causes Marko to reflect on the kind of youth worker he’d like to be.

12 Awesome Things About Middle Schoolers

August 10, 2021 • 5 MIN

Marko could list 100 reasons to love young teens; but this episode highlights 12 reasons.

Improving Your Relationship With Parents

June 22, 2021 • 5 MIN

Adopting an attitude of curiosity will completely reframe your interactions with parents of teenagers.

Being Open to Changing Your Mind

June 15, 2021 • 4 MIN

Marko unpacks an area of his leadership that needed to change, how he became aware of it, and what he did about it.

LGBTQ Teens Need a Pastoral Response Over a Theological Response

June 8, 2021 • 4 MIN

Marko digs into research that reveals why a pastoral response to LGBTQ teenagers is more important than a theological response.

My Resistance to Excellence as a Value

June 1, 2021 • 4 MIN

Excellence is a good thing. Marko’s just not convinced it’s a great thing.

Invitation to Partnership with God

May 25, 2021 • 5 MIN

Marko unpacks what it means to partner with God in youth ministry.

Growth Practices of Leaders

May 18, 2021 • 5 MIN

Balance is a misguided goal and not even biblical. Way better, and more in alignment with the life of Jesus, are the goals of sustainability and thriving.

Fear

May 11, 2021 • 5 MIN

Youth workers like to think of ourselves as fearless; but the honest truth is, most of us struggle with all sorts of fear. Let’s talk about how to orient to that.

Decisions as Ebeneezers

May 4, 2021 • 5 MIN

Let’s reframe spiritual decisions (especially the big ones teenagers make at summer events) as Ebeneezers—mile-markers on a spiritual journey.

Divergent Thinkers

April 27, 2021 • 4 MIN

Marko talks about Divergent Thinkers. Are they good or bad for our congregations?

Competency Facilitator

April 22, 2021 • 5 MIN

Marko explains what he means by "competency facilitator" and what it means for you, your volunteers, and students.

Seven Sins of Reinvention

April 12, 2021 • 6 MIN

Join Marko to learn about the seven sins of reinvention in youth ministry.