“Do what feels right!” Yes, but…

Doing what feels right can be good, when you are properly calibrated. 

But are you? 

Probably not, at least in some areas. Because over the years, we’ve been calibrated poorly by our parents, by our friends, by people we work with and total strangers. 

We might do something that is beautiful and amazing and loving, and still get shit on. 

And so doing it again can feel, well, less than right. 

D. Vassilia, @JunoCounseling, says:  

> “When you’re not used to being confident, confidence feels like arrogance. 
> When you’re used to being passive, assertiveness feels like aggression.
> When you’re not used to getting your needs met, prioritizing yourself feels selfish.
> Your comfort zone is not a good benchmark.” 

Read the rest of the blog here: “Do what feels right!” Yes, but… - Dating Kinky