So, I have this theory. It’s just a theory. Nothing I can prove, or even really want to. 

It’s a pet theory and it works for me. 

Kinksters are on the average more intense than the general vanilla public. 

That’s it. 

Find the transcript for this episode here. https://datingkinky.com/blog/love/the-upside-and-the-downside-of-intensity-in-relationships/