Dating Kinky
What if I'm ashamed about my kink?
July 5, 2021
Normally, I’m a fan of emotions, even those we might usually think of as negative, like anger, or jealousy. Not shame.
I’ve read that, “Shame means ‘I am bad.’ Guilt means ‘I did something bad.’”

I think it’s a HUGE leap to decide that you as a person are bad for a single kink or thought. Or even a cluster of them. 

Regardless, shame is an emotion. And emotions exist to call our attention to things we might need to think about, pay attention to, or fix.

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