Authentically Kinky (formerly known as What Women and Other Wonderful Humans Want)
Rosie Kay is thiskindagirl
June 7, 2022
Rosie Kay aka Thiskindagirl is an ethical non monogamy educator based in the UK. Her story of discovery and her mission to remove the stigma from and swinging and ENM is an inspiring one.
Hello, I'm Rosie Kay.
The girl behind ThisKindaGirl.
I’m a non-monogamy and swinging lifestyle coach. I’m here to help people talk about their sexual needs openly so they can have meaningful and satisfying relationships built on trust and honesty.

Over the last ten years, I have learned that there is not a one size fits all approach when it comes to relationships. And I believe we humans flourish when we put aside traditional ideas about what society dictates our lives should be like and start approaching relationships and sexuality from a different angle.

I'm the girl who has had to overcome self-comparison and insecurity and put aside her initial reservations and fears.  

The girl who a few years ago was so insecure in her relationships that she used to deny herself what she craved out of fear of upsetting her partner.

The girl who used to be so jealous that it became almost debilitating within pre-existing monogamous relationships.

**I used to believe that my journey started ten years ago, but in reality, it started a lot earlier than that.**

Over the last ten years, I have discovered how to navigate the swinger lifestyle and overcome many obstacles and difficulties, to the point where I can now confidently say, ‘_I know a lot about Ethical Non-Monogamy and open relationships, let me teach you.’_

However, it’s the process that I went through _prior_ to the last ten years that was the starting point for everything that followed. 

My relationship anxiety, my insecurity, and accepting my sexuality have all played a part in where I am today.  

I now want to share with people like yourself that having the desire to open up your relationship or explore other types of relationships is possible. Not only will I teach you how to do this successfully whilst keeping your relationship intact, but I will also help you understand why you feel this way in the first place.

A large part of the journey starts with acceptance. Acceptance that we are responding to our bodies' natural urges and that placing all expectations on one partner for the rest of their lives is very unrealistic.

So, sit back and dive deep into Ethical Monogamy with me.