Your Life By Design
Family of Origin
November 12, 2018
Your family of origin can set up with many benefits or challenges. We will examine some of them here.
1) Personal Success Blueprint 

We all have a blueprint that decides how we handle our life. It's deeply ingrained in our subconscious and unconscious and it determines your life destiny. It comes from our past programming—things we conditioned or programmed by in childhood. 

A few days after I got my first doctorate (more than 23 years ago), I woke up in the middle of the night screaming in panic, thinking to myself,

“I need to get another doctorate”. That was the point when I realised I had a very deep emotional program that was limiting me. Over the next few days, I self-hypnotised myself and went back to the key incident when this programming occurred. 

I had a very difficult time being born and had almost died. I had “decided” as a new borne that I could only live if I worked hard and did “outstanding things”. I changed this pattern that day at 31 years of age. 

That year my relationship with my wife changed positively and my clinic income grew by forty percent, even though I did nothing different.

Many people struggling with relationship issues may be unaware that the challenges they are facing are rooted in their early childhood. That they have acquired programming that interferes fatally in a happy love life. 

As a result of dysfunctional patterns in early childhood, they may build up inappropriate models of relationship on an unconscious level.

So while consciously they want a happy love life, on an unconscious level they are re-enacting an early childhood pattern.

You can be programmed   for spending or saving in childhood. Some do both in cycles that keep them financially treading water their whole lives. 

There are those who instinctively choose winning investments and those who consistently pick losers. But how do you know which way your blueprint is set? 

One way is to look at your results! 

Financial settings are like the temperature in a room. If the thermostat is set for 68 degrees, the  room temperature is 68 degrees. If you are not earning enough, keeping enough, or enjoying your money enough, then your blueprint is set for “not enough”. Your current financial blueprint will stay with you for the rest of your life, unless you change it,
One of the main objectives was to show you: 


Another thing you will learn is that the universe is dynamic . Everything is in a constant state of motion and change. You are either attracting success or repelling it depending on how you think, speak, and act in the world. 

At one of our programs, the Wealth Creation Blueprint Seminar, through intense reconditioning exercises, you will change your blueprint, resetting it for “automatic” success.  

You will find that you will attract all that you have been struggling to achieve once you have done that. 

We work on all these issues at a program called Success Permissions, that I have been conducting for the last 20 years. The objective is to make success in all areas of your life, your natural way of being.! 

By the end of the program you will have a completely different unconscious attitude towards health, wealth, relationship and success. If you choose to use the information, you will develop a winner’s mind-set. You can create inner peace and happiness by using the same principles you learn to enhance your financial life. 

The Wealth Creation Blueprint  Programme will teach you to be “rich” in every sense of the word.

Family of Origin Issues

Many people do not quite understand how their family of origin issues affects them.

Family of origin issues may include such issues as having grown up in alcoholic or chemically dependent family systems, witnessing domestic violence, having lost a parent through death, having an absent parent, being adopted, being a child of divorced parents or having had step-family issues, being a survivor of childhood neglect or emotional/physical/sexual abuse, having a parent who was a rager or a workaholic, growing up in a family system plagued with eating disorders, having had a mentally ill parent or a sex-addicted parent, or having been brought up with a strict religious orientation that somehow causes conflict for the person in adulthood.  

All of these and numerous other situations can chronically change your set-point for health, wealth and happiness. 

Addressing family of origin issues is not about placing blame but rather about healing unresolved trauma, and increasing awareness and gaining new perspectives about dysfunctional patterns that clients re-enact in adulthood.  
If you have negative programs in your unconscious, then you need to clear these programmes. 

Once you do that ,your world view and your mind set changes dramatically. Then whatever you set your mind to can be easily achieved.

When we work with individuals on deep seated issues, from the day the process is done, they experience significant changes in 21 days.

 Within 21 days, depending on what issue they worked on, they make more money, their relationships change or their health issues begin to significantly change.

We work on all these issues at a program called Success Permissions, that I have been conducting for the last 20 years.

2) Your Profit Profile

There is your Profit Profile. There are 9 major Profit Profiles with three variations each. 

This profile will provide you with:
1. Clarity on the nine paths of least resistance to success.
2. Identifiable role models and biographies within each path.
3. A process for building the right team and focusing on the right activity.
4. Links to the growth stages in business, and the essential hierarchy of our life values from passion to purpose.
Where will this new knowledge lead you?
You find that wealth is far more about focus than talent, and that much of  your time is focused on the wrong thing. When you quit these areas, you begin to experience entirely different levels of action, traction and attraction. You find that there are rules to wealth and that until you begin to follow the rules, you’ll never win the game. When you learn the rules, you realise you have the power to master them.
You realise the game that you need to play is already built around your strengths and passions – things you are likely to have been taking for granted while you work for a living. You begin to experience ‘flow’, which occurs when you follow your natural path. You begin to attract the right opportunities, people, talent and resources.
You begin to master the art of anticipation, which can only come as a result of following your natural game. You discover that synchronicity, coincidences and sheer luck are experiences that should not be left to chance. 
You find that as you increase your power to receive, you increase your power to give. You realise that your power to contribute becomes more than a choice – it becomes a responsibility. Momentum brings meaning, and your life path leads to your life purpose.
At one of our programmes, the Wealth Creation Blueprint Seminar, through intense reconditioning exercises, you will change your blueprint, resetting it for “automatic” success.  

The Wealth Creation Blueprint Programme will teach you to be “rich” in every sense of the word.

3) Your 10,000 hour expertise (ages 13 to 18)

In Outliers, focusing on outliers, defined by Gladwell as people who do not fit into our normal understanding of achievement, Outliers deals with exceptional people, especially those who are smart, rich, and successful, and those who operate at the extreme outer edge of what is statistically possible. 

Malcolm Gladwell interviewed Bill Gates and focuses on the opportunities given to him throughout his lifetime that have led to his success. A common theme that appears throughout Outliers is the "10,000-Hour Rule", based on a study by Anders Ericsson. If you become clearer about what you focused on from the ages of 13 to 18, you will become clearer about where to focus your wealth creation efforts. 

Once you understand your Profit Profile, you can then make sure that you live a life that is aligned with your core competence and your personalised Wealth Blueprint. 

One lucky listener that posts a review on iTunes will win a private confidential consultation and coaching with me on discovering your soul’s purpose. I will lead you on a personal journey to discover your unique mind-body psychosomatic map of your life. You will get a detailed report and a personal 45 minute consultation with me that is worth thousands.

On this podcast I’m going to help you design a life that works. So you are able to say yes to the things that matter and eliminate everything else that slows you down. The more clear you can be about how to organise your daily life to support your bigger vision, the more you’ll step into your true potential, stay on track and accomplish all that you want and deserve. Are you ready to make that happen? 

Feel free to reach out to me to ask your questions at Your life is a gift. Design it. Do what matters and join me each week as we get closer to designing the life of your dreams. I am Dr Sun. Join me next week on Your Life by Design.