"No" does not mean "ask me why and argue with me about the validity of my decision."
It just means, "no." It's a negative response to a question or offer.
"Are you available Tuesday evening?"
"No."
"Open to a booty call?"
"No."
"Do you like radishes?"
"No."
I'm not free Tuesday night because I have a dinner for friends planned.
I don't particularly like booty call relationships—yes, I have tried them in the past.
And radishes are just disgusting.
Find the full transcript for this episode here. https://datingkinky.com/blog/communication/what-does-no-mean/