Why Some Relationships Should NEVER Workout
January 10, 2023
Why Some Relationships Should NEVER Workout could have also been titled "Making Sure You Choose the Right Relationship". It's funny how titles work. In this episode, David Dubé shares the reason some relationships are destined to fail unless there's one person in the pairing giving up so much of who they are just to stay in the relationship. This information can save you years of headaches and heartaches when it comes to choosing the right relationship.
Why some relationships should NEVER workout otherwise stated as Making sure you choose the right relationship for you.
This all comes down to levels of consciousness. If someone you're in a potential relationship with isn't at the same level you are in conscious awareness then there always feels like there's a disconnect in the relationship. That disconnect, if you're at a higher level of consciousness, only hinders your long-term growth in life and the relationship.
From lowest to highest the levels are as follows:
This all comes down to levels of consciousness. If someone you're in a potential relationship with isn't at the same level you are in conscious awareness then there always feels like there's a disconnect in the relationship. That disconnect, if you're at a higher level of consciousness, only hinders your long-term growth in life and the relationship.
From lowest to highest the levels are as follows:
- Against Us - at this stage, the person is living in survival mode. The world is against not only them but everyone. Life is a constant struggle for survival.
- Against Me - it's me vs the world. You suck because you have more than me. I fight for everything and it still doesn't work out for me. Life is a constant struggle.
- Because of Me - If it is to be it's up to me! This is the hustling lifestyle. When in a team, it's still about being the "star". It's about my talents, not yours. If you shine, I must shine brighter. You have that, well I have this! This is all about personal domination.
- For Us - This level is about creating something with someone or a group of people. It's my team vs your team. We're number one. We fight together to create something but we're still fighting others.
- Through Us - Life happens through us and not for us. Life flows whether alone or together it's constantly flowing through us. We don't try to be happy we are just happy. Life grows as we grow and as life grows we grow.
When you know what level of consciousness you're living in and you perceive the level that others are living at, you will begin to understand why certain relationships work and why others do not.
This truly is a superpower when it comes to creating lasting relationships.
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